Joined: 06 Oct 2005 Posts: 261 Location: Central Slope btween 4th and 5th
Wed May 16, 07 12:29 pm EST
Did anyone else notice the group of people who setup a card table on the sidewalk of 5th ave (around President St) and were playing a cards?
Maybe I am nuts but WTF?
lmboogie Local
Joined: 11 May 2007 Posts: 280
Wed May 16, 07 12:39 pm EST
why would you have an issue with folks playing cards on the sidewalk?
friendlypitbull Local
Joined: 06 Oct 2005 Posts: 261 Location: Central Slope btween 4th and 5th
Wed May 16, 07 2:01 pm EST
Because it is a sidewalk - for walking - not a park for setting up a bridge table and chairs and playing cards. Not to mention they were extrordinarly loud.
Slopehead Dodging strollers
Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Posts: 128 Location: lost on Carroll
Wed May 16, 07 2:38 pm EST
They've been doing that for years. 5th & Prez used to be a real hangout corner and that's one of the remaining vestiges. Doesn't bother me at all.
erikka Bruce Ratner's Love Child
Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 754
Wed May 16, 07 3:13 pm EST
Fifth and St Marks, too. I don't care, except when it goes until midnight and people are loud. The group that congregates is sort of up in everyone's business, which amuses me. It's like having a watchdog outside at all times--they know the people who own the buildings and who live there and they keep an eye on things.
Now, BBQing on the sidewalk--that's another matter.
veets "Way Too Incestial"
Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 2273
Wed May 16, 07 7:58 pm EST
I grew up in Brooklyn.. in Brownsville.. people played cards on the street all the time in good weather.. I am sure they were either closer to the building or sidewalk edge so people could pass by. Now I am expecting a post on how stoop ball should be illegal.. It is Brooklyn, you know!! LOl!!
Karl the Druid on facebook i am now
Joined: 18 Aug 2006 Posts: 935 Location: nethermead
Wed May 16, 07 8:22 pm EST
lmboogie wrote:
why would you have an issue with folks playing cards on the sidewalk?
sidewalk card dealing is the gateway game to domino playing
Last edited by raw on Wed May 16, 07 9:08 pm; edited 1 time in total
laura Resident Alien
Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 896
Wed May 16, 07 9:06 pm EST
As a Midwestern gal I've always been charmed by seeing old guys playing dominos ...
veets "Way Too Incestial"
Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 2273
Wed May 16, 07 9:41 pm EST
erikka wrote:
Fifth and St Marks, too. I don't care, except when it goes until midnight and people are loud. The group that congregates is sort of up in everyone's business, which amuses me. It's like having a watchdog outside at all times--they know the people who own the buildings and who live there and they keep an eye on things.
Now, BBQing on the sidewalk--that's another matter.
See the know everything that is going on on the streets is really a good thing to me.. If people are out on the streets in to evening hours it keeps the streets safer in any City. In the late 70's we lived in Boerum Hill (off of 4th Ave) and the hood was sketchy at that point.. Lots of ladies of the night and the scene that goes along with that but the neighborhood people hung out on stoops day and night and I can remember many nights where I initially feared walking from the pacific street station to the house if it was late but the reality was I met 3 neighbors hanging outside on my way home.
I am not saying we need noise but if people are well behaved on the street playing cards I have no problem.
ljnd "Anonymous Guest"
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 421
Wed May 16, 07 11:21 pm EST
I think it's great - I love stoop-sitters.
laura Resident Alien
Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 896
Wed May 16, 07 11:38 pm EST
I am rather Boo Radley by nature myself but I very much appreciate the stoop and street culture ... makes me feel safe and neighborly.
friendlypitbull Local
Joined: 06 Oct 2005 Posts: 261 Location: Central Slope btween 4th and 5th
Fri May 18, 07 10:15 am EST
"Street culture"!!!
It is so funny the bias on these boards
Oh the outrage expressed at mothers w/strollers for taking up sidewalk space (and god forbid a mother have one of those double wide strollers!!)
BUT
a bunch of loud degenerates setting up a TABLE on the sidewalk (of a busy commercial strip) playing cards is praised as culture!
Your right maybe its me...next time I'm going to sit down with some beers (in paperbag of course) and a blunt and try to get with the program.
laura Resident Alien
Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 896
Fri May 18, 07 11:18 am EST
It wasn't my intention to praise obnoxiously loud people. All I meant was that I like seeing people hanging out on stoops, playing dominos, etc., as opposed to the kind of neighborhood where the sidewalks are deserted. If they're being assholes, that's something else.
Quigley Regular
Joined: 06 Mar 2007 Posts: 151
Fri May 18, 07 11:25 am EST
I live at that corner, and I can't figure out who you are talking about...?
The guys who sit on President St, right next to the kitchen exit of Mezcals? They sit there all the time when it's nice out. They do take up some of the sidewalk, but I just walk in the street for those 3 seconds. It's really not a big deal. And its usually just some old guys sitting around in the summer...
But I've never seen a table set up in the middle of 5th avenue. (I assume that's what you mean by "busy commercial strip.") Where exactly were they?
"Degenerates"? Jeez, that's kinda rough. Are they visibly drunk and/or high? And what time of day was this?
laura Resident Alien
Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 896
Fri May 18, 07 11:39 am EST
Quigley wrote:
"Degenerates"? Jeez, that's kinda rough. Are they visibly drunk and/or high? And what time of day was this?
The first big step on the road
To the depths of deg-ra-Day--
I say, first, medicinal wine from a teaspoon,
Then beer from a bottle.
Next thing you know they're playin cards
Which starts with C which rhymes with T which stands for TROUBLE!
friendlypitbull Local
Joined: 06 Oct 2005 Posts: 261 Location: Central Slope btween 4th and 5th
Fri May 18, 07 11:52 am EST
Quigley wrote:
I live at that corner, and I can't figure out who you are talking about...?
I believe that they live in the building next to or above the nursery school/day care center (don't know the name of the place) - which is where they were located.
Quigley Regular
Joined: 06 Mar 2007 Posts: 151
Fri May 18, 07 11:54 am EST
So next to bageltique, basically?
That's really funny. I have never, ever seen that there. I'm just really curious... what time was this?
erikka Bruce Ratner's Love Child
Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 754
Fri May 18, 07 12:06 pm EST
Where is this cardtable and folding chair Vegas full of degenerates? It sounds like a lot of fun and I'm thinking I might want in on it.
friendlypitbull Local
Joined: 06 Oct 2005 Posts: 261 Location: Central Slope btween 4th and 5th
Fri May 18, 07 1:33 pm EST
Quigley wrote:
So next to bageltique, basically?
That's really funny. I have never, ever seen that there. I'm just really curious... what time was this?
I walked past at approx 7:30PM (Wed) and then again at 9 - there both times.
This was the first time I saw this although a few times in the past I have seen one of the guys sitting in the doorway of the building drinking a 40.
jayce Human Shield
Joined: 25 Jul 2005 Posts: 461
Fri May 18, 07 1:49 pm EST
Sometimes I sit out on my front steps with a beer and chat with people too. It's not a 40 cause my stomach won't hold that much. But sometimes its just nice to sit on the stairs with a beer on a hot summer day and talk to the neighbors.
lighten up a little. not everyone is a "degenerate."
friendlypitbull Local
Joined: 06 Oct 2005 Posts: 261 Location: Central Slope btween 4th and 5th
Fri May 18, 07 1:58 pm EST
Oh please - I've lived in NY my whole life - I know a degenerates when I see them.
laura Resident Alien
Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 896
Fri May 18, 07 2:13 pm EST
friendlypitbull wrote:
I know a degenerates when I see them.
I think I may have to make that my new signature.
Quigley Regular
Joined: 06 Mar 2007 Posts: 151
Fri May 18, 07 2:16 pm EST
I know the guy you're talking about. He sits in the doorway with his beer all the time. He's probably an alcoholic. I guess he might be a "degenerate." (Although, you say you've lived in new york your whole life... I don't know how a "degenerate" can surprise you. They're everywhere!)
But like, whatever. He never seems to cause any harm. He certainly doesn't bother me. In fact, I would say he, and his card playing friends, affect my life much less negatively than the restaurant across the street that blares its so-called fancy live music into the streets! I'm just sayin'...
erikka Bruce Ratner's Love Child
Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 754
Fri May 18, 07 2:23 pm EST
laura wrote:
friendlypitbull wrote:
I know a degenerates when I see them.
I think I may have to make that my new signature.
LOCK YOU DOORS warning has been extended to North Park Slope. Reported incidences of people enjoying a nice summer day and the company of their neighbors. Call 311 immediately if you are witness to these dangerous board game playing hooligans! We must prevent families from congregating in front of their own homes!
Strangely enough, I walk by these degenerates every day and have lived to tell the tale! They just sit there....minding their own business! It's a disgrace!
bklyngirl Halfway to Paradise
Joined: 07 Jan 2007 Posts: 147
Fri May 18, 07 9:11 pm EST
friendlypitbull wrote:
Did anyone else notice the group of people who setup a card table on the sidewalk of 5th ave (around President St) and were playing a cards?
Maybe I am nuts but WTF?
Where on earth are you from? Being born and raised here, I desperately miss stoop sitters, nosy neighbors who scream out the window, and lively domino games. Ahhh...the Brooklyn summer.
But "street culture"? Yikes.
laura Resident Alien
Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 896
Fri May 18, 07 9:57 pm EST
bklyngirl wrote:
But "street culture"? Yikes.
Um, meaning what?
WTGirl Insider
Joined: 28 Apr 2007 Posts: 342
Fri May 18, 07 10:56 pm EST
friendlypitbull wrote:
"Street culture"!!!
It is so funny the bias on these boards
Oh the outrage expressed at mothers w/strollers for taking up sidewalk space (and god forbid a mother have one of those double wide strollers!!)
BUT
a bunch of loud degenerates setting up a TABLE on the sidewalk (of a busy commercial strip) playing cards is praised as culture!
.
But by praising "street culture" and bashing strollers, some people are desperately "tryin' to keep it real". (A bit late for that in the slope). My landlord used to start his dominos game at 10:00, be trashed by 11:30 and 2 nights out of 10 beat the crap out of his wife. Can't say I found it so charming to live above and listen to when I had a new baby and wanted nothing more then sleep and didn't want an AC blasting to drown out his noise. Walking past it--totally fine and glad to have people on the street. Drunk or sober, I didn't want to listen to him and his budies playing dominos at 1:00 in the morning.
seven24 Park Slope Native.
Joined: 22 Mar 2006 Posts: 141 Location: fourteen-7/8
Sat May 19, 07 12:03 am EST
bklyngirl wrote:
Where on earth are you from? Being born and raised here, I desperately miss stoop sitters, nosy neighbors who scream out the window, and lively domino games. Ahhh...the Brooklyn summer.
But "street culture"? Yikes.
I myself am trying to keep that "culture" alive. I am that stoop sitter, nosey/noisy neighbor who screams out and up to the window and just because of this thread I will be outside this weekend playing domino or since I'm watching my neice and nephew this weekend maybe monopoly.
Where on earth are you from? Being born and raised here, I desperately miss stoop sitters, nosy neighbors who scream out the window, and lively domino games. Ahhh...the Brooklyn summer.
But "street culture"? Yikes.
I myself am trying to keep that "culture" alive. I am that stoop sitter, nosey/noisy neighbor who screams out and up to the window and just because of this thread I will be outside this weekend playing domino or since I'm watching my neice and nephew this weekend maybe monopoly.
I am a stoop sitter too. One of my favorite pastimes.
My interest in the phrase "street culture" is that it sounded...quaint, and like something that is to be watched when others "do it", but not to participate in it.
I don't know...just sounds a little demeaning to me, like the "new people" move to the neighborhood for it, but would NEVER participate in it.
MOD NOTE: Edited to fix tags
veets "Way Too Incestial"
Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 2273
Sat May 19, 07 9:11 am EST
raw wrote:
ljnd wrote:
I think it's great - I love stoop-sitters.
I once stepped outside and discovered an entire family of two adults and three plus kids having a goddamn pizza party on my stoop. Their near-by car, parked with open doors, had more people spilling out. They looked like tourists with pizza dripping out of their mouths and terror in their eyes as I erupted with the snarls of a rabid raccoon.
Part of the nyc street culture has to do with stoop etiquette. Unless you own the building (or are at least renting in a building) you have no right to sit on anyone eleses stoop for any reason (don't tell me you felt a little faint!!) unless you are invited by the stoop owner.
laura Resident Alien
Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 896
Sat May 19, 07 10:51 am EST
bklyngirl wrote:
I don't know...just sounds a little demeaning to me, like the "new people" move to the neighborhood for it, but would NEVER participate in it.
I admit I am in that category ... I wouldn't say 'never', but, I dunno, I'm just not a stoopsitter type myself. If I lived in a place with a front porch that would be cool though.
ljnd "Anonymous Guest"
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 421
Sun May 20, 07 11:16 am EST
Quote:
raw wrote:
ljnd wrote:
I think it's great - I love stoop-sitters.
I once stepped outside and discovered an entire family of two adults and three plus kids having a goddamn pizza party on my stoop. Their near-by car, parked with open doors, had more people spilling out. They looked like tourists with pizza dripping out of their mouths and terror in their eyes as I erupted with the snarls of a rabid raccoon.
Part of the nyc street culture has to do with stoop etiquette. Unless you own the building (or are at least renting in a building) you have no right to sit on anyone eleses stoop for any reason (don't tell me you felt a little faint!!) unless you are invited by the stoop owner.
Totally agreed. Me and the folks in my building sitting on our stoop - that is one thing. The teenagers headed down the street to MS 51 to sell pot, taking a break and bickering on my stoop - something else entirely. As for that family of pizza-eaters - ye gods. I can't imagine having that kind of nerve. There are plenty of little parks around - or restaurants - to do that.
jennitrixie Regular
Joined: 09 Oct 2006 Posts: 102 Location: S. Slope-ish
Sun May 20, 07 11:47 am EST
erikka wrote:
LOCK YOU DOORS warning has been extended to North Park Slope. Reported incidences of people enjoying a nice summer day and the company of their neighbors. Call 311 immediately if you are witness to these dangerous board game playing hooligans! We must prevent families from congregating in front of their own homes!
"I've walked by and they've never bothered me" is sorta like "I never used a condom and I've never gotten AIDS" thinking. Puh lease. And they prefer to be called roughnecks, not hooligans m'aam. _________________ Ask a burning question, get a burning answer.
Quigley Regular
Joined: 06 Mar 2007 Posts: 151
Mon May 21, 07 12:14 pm EST
The Chipster wrote:
"I've walked by and they've never bothered me" is sorta like "I never used a condom and I've never gotten AIDS" thinking. Puh lease. And they prefer to be called roughnecks, not hooligans m'aam.
Well, no... it's actually not like that at all.
All I meant was I walk by there all the time, and his presence in the world, on that stoop, drinking his beer, doesn't bother me at all. In that it doesn't affect me in any way.
I'm really not sure I like that comparison: my walking down the street not being bothered by others minding their own business being compared to me being negligent and luckily not getting AIDS? Sure, that's a well thought-out argument...
friendlypitbull Local
Joined: 06 Oct 2005 Posts: 261 Location: Central Slope btween 4th and 5th
Mon May 21, 07 2:28 pm EST
First of all, you must be talking about a different location - because the building in question (just North of the Bagel place) has no stoop at all - it opens directly onto the street, which is one (of a few reasons) why all these people who are talking about "stoop sitters" have no idea what they are talking about.
Secondly, while someones public drinking may not affect you it certainly affects those that happen to walk by when the quantity of alcohol consumed eliminates self-restraint enough to cause the consumer to shout incomprehnsible things to passerbys or to play music at an uncomfortably loud decibls. You must simply have good timing.
Finally, I am glad so many people find public intoxication, sidewalk poaching for private card games and other described behavior to be "culture" - But where I grew up (actually here) - we call things and people as they are - so if you act like a degenerate, thats what we call you.
I still cant figure out though how some of the very same people who like to attack Mothers trying to raise kids for being "entitled" because their strollers take up a lot of sidewalk or because they dont correct their kids for being loud (in the middle of the day or in a park) can be such apoligists for what can only be described as much more obnoxious and "entitled" behavior.
Karl the Druid on facebook i am now
Joined: 18 Aug 2006 Posts: 935 Location: nethermead
Mon May 21, 07 2:44 pm EST
Quigley wrote:
The Chipster wrote:
"I've walked by and they've never bothered me" is sorta like "I never used a condom and I've never gotten AIDS" thinking. Puh lease. And they prefer to be called roughnecks, not hooligans m'aam.
Well, no... it's actually not like that at all.
All I meant was I walk by there all the time, and his presence in the world, on that stoop, drinking his beer, doesn't bother me at all. In that it doesn't affect me in any way.
I'm really not sure I like that comparison: my walking down the street not being bothered by others minding their own business being compared to me being negligent and luckily not getting AIDS? Sure, that's a well thought-out argument...
walking down the street and stooping can give you aids?
thes sidewalks have gone sallow. _________________ destination: roam
Quigley Regular
Joined: 06 Mar 2007 Posts: 151
Mon May 21, 07 3:05 pm EST
Quote:
First of all, you must be talking about a different location - because the building in question (just North of the Bagel place) has no stoop at all - it opens directly onto the street, which is one (of a few reasons) why all these people who are talking about "stoop sitters" have no idea what they are talking about.
You're right, I was wrong by saying "stoop." I think I just wrote it subconsiously because I keep reading it. I know the guy just sits in his doorway, or on a chair right outside.
I also agree that everyone talking about "stoop sitting" is talking about something else. People sitting on their stoops doesn't bother me either, but it is different than what you first brought up.
Maybe you've passed by at a time when they were really out of hand. All I've been trying to say is that I walk there every day and night, and while I sometimes see the guy who sits in his doorway, I've never even heard a peep out of him. Maybe I do just have good timing...
I'm in no way advocating public drunkeness, people harassing passerbys on the street, staying up screaming until 3am, etc. That's not "culture" or "quaint" and I would never mean to imply otherwise. I was just responding to the idea of a card game, which didn't really sound that bad to me. And it did sound a little bit like you just happened to pass by that strip of street and see this happening, and it really bothered you. I was just giving the input that I live there, pass by often, and have never seen any problems.
fyi, I passed by that exact spot last night, and there were 2 ladies just sitting and talking in their plastic chairs. I guess that's what I think of when I think of that spot, is all.
seven24 Park Slope Native.
Joined: 22 Mar 2006 Posts: 141 Location: fourteen-7/8
Mon May 21, 07 5:27 pm EST
I know for a fact that one of the reasons most elderly people sit outside on the stoop is cause they are lonely. In this anti-social society we live in maybe you should put down your cell and ipod and strike up a conversation with a stoop sitting elder and you might learn something.
erikka Bruce Ratner's Love Child
Joined: 15 Sep 2006 Posts: 754
Mon May 21, 07 5:45 pm EST
Fifth Avenue was covered in degenerates yesterday--sitting, eating, drinking. As far as the eye could see. Loud as hell, too. Damn them!
Restless Native Local
Joined: 17 May 2007 Posts: 254 Location: Park Slope
Tue May 22, 07 1:55 pm EST
Hey and what's the deal with those few old people who still sit on the staircases in front of their homes, what do they call them, "Sloops" or something? I mean come on, if you want to hang out someplace, that's what Great Lakes or the Tea Lounge is for. Have some class.
Restless Native Local
Joined: 17 May 2007 Posts: 254 Location: Park Slope
Tue May 22, 07 2:24 pm EST
seven24 wrote:
I myself am trying to keep that "culture" alive. I am that stoop sitter, nosey/noisy neighbor who screams out and up to the window and just because of this thread I will be outside this weekend playing domino or since I'm watching my neice and nephew this weekend maybe monopoly.
If I yelled up to my parents' window the way everyone did when we were kids, I think the block would have a heart attack.. but then again, back in those days, broken bells were the norm, especially in apartment buildings!
Another thing that these yuppies seem to have absolutely no concept of is parking space etiquette.. one of the newer Martha Stewarts on my parents' block was bringing groceries and "the most beautiful children in the world" from a double-parked car into her brownstone, while my father sat at the hydrant waiting for a spot (he was there first, BTW). Someone starts to pull out, my father makes the move, and Martha comes running out yelling "MY SPOT, THAT'S MY SPOT!!".. the funniest part about it is that she couldn't manuever her Volvo Wagon into it so my father took it anyway, lol... On a side note, this is the same woman who lets her 5-6yr old son out in front of the house butt-naked (seen it more than once).
Different occassion was backing into a spot on one of the upper aves when the light turned and I had to pause for the rush of traffic, at which point some Katie Couric sees me, dives into the spot, jumps out, looks at me blankly, and wanders off. Needless to say I got my revenge later on her car (no permanent damage, just a lil something to make her think twice next time)
The Chipster Irregular
Joined: 15 Oct 2006 Posts: 678
Tue May 22, 07 2:36 pm EST
oy. on the AIDS metaphor bandwagon. You know what I meant to say. If it didn't happen to "ME" it doesn't happen.
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