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  • hyhy7464
    hyhy7464
    DEB AND FAMILY:
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  • suzie
    suzie
    Good.....at least you didnt have to hear it alone with your Aunt
    Its a Blessing they didnt have to put her on the Respirator.....then go through the pain of disconnecting it!
  • geriob1
    geriob1
    Deb - I just got off the phone with Aunt Dee... She said her flight is 9am tomorrow... If you guys need anything at all & I can help, please, please don't hesitate to let me know.... I feel so bad for aunt lillian... I will keep her in my prayer.
  • suzie
    suzie
    Still so sad ...... your Aunt Lillian isnt gonna want to be left alone
  • hyhy7464
    hyhy7464
    IF U NEED ANYTHING U HAVE MY NUMBER
    EVEN IF IT IS JUST AN EAR U NEED I AM HERE
  • debbie bonavita mccarthy
    debbie bonavita mccarthy
    Actually Suzie....they did have too.....then she started to go into cardiac
    arrest and we convinced my aunt Lillian to sign the DNR.....It wasn't easy.
  • suzie
    suzie
    I told you .....it breaks your heart to make that decision
  • jeanette lagreca
    jeanette lagreca
    DEBBIE IM SO SORRY, ABOUT YOUR AUNT ROSIE PASSING, BUT YOU KNOW SHE PUT UP A HARD FIGHT, GOD WANTS HER TO BE WITH HER FAMILY NOW, NO MORE PAIN AND SUFFERING. IM GLAD YOUR AUNT IS COMMING IN TOMMOROW. THIS WOULD COMFORT LILLIAN NOW THAT SHE GOING TO NEED IT. I KNOW ITS HARD FOR YOU, BECAUSE SHE WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU KIDS, AND AT THE VERY END YOU WERE THERE FOR HER. GOD BLESS YOU FOR THAT!!!!!
  • debbie bonavita mccarthy
    debbie bonavita mccarthy
    Thank you all......just being able to talk here helps sooo much!!! But I
    reach out if I need to. Thanks.

    I feel so bad....my son is graduating tomorrow and I feel like shit.
  • debbie bonavita mccarthy
    debbie bonavita mccarthy
    You're right Jeanette.....they were always there for us. God works in strange ways....I'm so glad I was out of work and able to be there
    for my aunts.
  • debbie bonavita mccarthy
    debbie bonavita mccarthy
    Suzie......it really does. No one should have to make that decision.
  • suzie
    suzie
    Deb....try to get some sleep tonight .....you have to put on a happy face for your Son's Graduation ....how sad!
  • patsy (miele) kirk
    patsy (miele) kirk
    DEB, DITTO ON WHAT SUZIE JUST SAID...KEVIN IS GRADUATING (BIG MILESTONE FOR HIM)..JUST PUT ON A HAPPY FACE, AS GOES THE SONG...XX
  • suzie
    suzie
    You know we're all here for you ....I wish I can hug you!
  • patsy (miele) kirk
    patsy (miele) kirk
    DEB, I WILL SEE YOU TOMORROW.!!! CALL IF U NEED ME!!! LOVE YA XX
  • debbie bonavita mccarthy
    debbie bonavita mccarthy
    I'm gonna do the best I can for Kevin tomorrow. I don't want to ruin his day.
  • graybeard49
    graybeard49
    DEBBIE

    YOUR AUNT,YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
    IN MY PRAYERS

    ANTHONY

    GLAD YOU'RE FEELING BETTER
    BE STRONG PARTNER

    OK I'LL BE BACK LATER TO LOCK UP
    I PROMISE
    8-[
  • jeanette lagreca
    jeanette lagreca
    DEBBIE PUT ON A NICE SMILE FOR YOUR SON KEVEN. PUT ON A PRETTY OUTFIT. WATCH HIM PROUDLY AS HE GETS HIS DIPLOMA, ITS HIS DAY.
    CONGRAULATIONS TO KEVEN AND YOUR FAMILY ON GRADUATION. AS SAD AS WE FELL LIFE GOES ON.
  • ralph
    ralph
    Debbie, you and your family are in our prayers, sorry to hear.

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    RT
  • jeanette lagreca
    jeanette lagreca
    PATSY, CONGRAULATIONS ON TONIANN GRADUATION THEY MAKE YOU PROUD.

    SUZIE CONGRAULATIONS ON SAMMANTA GRADUATIONS DAY ALSO, ENJOY THE DAY WITH HER!!!!!!

    IS THERE ANYMORE GRADUATIONS
  • janet m horan
    janet m horan
    Debbie, I am so sorry. Had a crying spell when I read that Aunt Rosie died. I hope Aunt Lillian will be ok. You also need to take care of yourself. I just don't know what to say. There are really no words to express how sad I am for you and your family.
  • suzie
    suzie
    Jeanette thanks so much .....its Nicole.....Samantha is my Granddaughter
    but thank you it means the same thing!


    Hi RT
  • t-bone51
    t-bone51
    DEAR DEBBIE AND FAMILY,

    I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS I KNOW SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE BUT IT DOES NOT MAKE IT EASY ON THE FAMILY. SO SAD FOR YOUR AUNT LILLIAN.
    MY HEART IS SO SAD FOR YOU. PLEASE IF U NEED ANYTHING FROM ANY OF US PLEASE DONT HESITATE TO CALL OR EMAIL.
    I KNOW IT IS HARD BUT TRY TO ENJOY THE GRADUATION FOR YOUR SON.
    IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS LOVE TERRY
  • janet m horan
    janet m horan
    Hello everyone else.
  • judy giordano banjany
    judy giordano banjany
    Congratulations Kevin - 2009

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    Debbie - I know this is going to be a bitter sweet day, but try and enjoy...you are in my prayers.
  • suzie
    suzie
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  • t-bone51
    t-bone51
    JANET,
    YOUR SENTIMENTS MADE ME CRY.
    SEE THIS IS WHAT I MEAN U HAVE TO PUT THINGS INTO PERSPECTIVE.
    LIFE IS IMPORTANT NOT PETTY BULL THAT GOES ON BUT NO MATTER WHAT WE ARE ALL HERE FOR EACH OTHER. WE ARE A FAMILY. JUST READING ALL THE POSTS SHOWS HOW MUCH WE ALL CARE FOR EACH OTHER NO MATTER WHAT AND THAT IS WHAT IS IMPORTANT. JUST MY 2 CENTS AGAIN
  • judy giordano banjany
    judy giordano banjany
    Congratulations Toniann - 2009

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  • judy giordano banjany
    judy giordano banjany
    Congratulations Nicole - 2009

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  • debbie bonavita mccarthy
    debbie bonavita mccarthy
    [quote="Janet M Horan"]Debbie, I am so sorry. Had a crying spell when I read that Aunt Rosie died. I hope Aunt Lillian will be ok. You also need to take care of yourself. I just don't know what to say. There are really no words to express how sad I am for you and your family.[/quote

    Janet....if I didn't cry enough today....I just did a little more. You are so sweet. Thank you so much.