Should Armchair lie to the ladies?

MOD

Excellent, who else need dating advice? The Love Doctors are IN.

mrs whynot

When some women want to date, they participate in activities such as classes, singles hikes, outdoor dancing, NPR singles events, Home Depot classes, etc, etc. Figure out something you like doing (watching porn and science fiction do not count) and find a singles event that relates to it.

whynot_31

Mrs Whynot is proof that not all women have impossibly high standards.

tateinbk

Mamacita said: AW, You take care of your family and their property and help run the family business. When dating, put yourself out there as a trustee to your family's multiple real estates, as a caring son who values family, culture and tradition. It's not like you are some entitled rich kid whose bumming it at home and a drain on society. If it helps don't tell them that you live at home until after the first date.

The other reason ladies shy away from men who live at home is they fear they're just lazy bastards who like having mommy do all their laundry and cook and clean for them.

Also, don't mention all your negatives, you can mention one or two, but don't make them your worst features. You get to advertise yourself. This is your chance. Don't lie, but aim to tell good stuff. Also, use a free site, otherwise it just gets (more) demoralizing. Good Luck, feel free to contact if you want any help writing or editing your profile.

MOD

whynot_31 said:

Jeffery-

Given the ratio of women to men who are into such things, I suspect that any woman into such things could have their choice of men like Armchair. Given such power, I believe that we would all pick a fabulous, exceptional outlier.

Being that most of the world falls within 2 standard deviations, I suspect AW is not exceptional.

Hence, I believe that we should advise AW to stray outside of his comfort zone and cast a bigger net than he is used to: I.E. He should not seek the ever so attract, ever so elusive woman who is into WoW or Diablo III.

AW, dating is about putting yourself out there, being open minded, and (ultimately) settling for who will spend time with you.

You gotta have reasonable expectations. A first step might be accepting that Victoria Secret Models and Diablo III girls might be equally out of your league.

...they just have too many other choices.

I had to ask the boyfriend what WoW meant. And here I thought ya'll were just expressing astonishment or admiration... and into Satan.

whynot_31

AW-

When the moment approaches being "right", many couples utilize alcohol, music, or fine dining to convince themselves that they should engage in physical relations.

Barry White has played a role in thousands of such decisions, and (Depending upon who you end up wanting to be with), might help you get to that next level.

armchair_warrior

whynot_31 said:

AW-

When the moment approaches being "right", many couples utilize alcohol, music, or fine dining to convince themselves that they should engage in physical relations.

Barry White has played a role in thousands of such decisions, and (Depending upon who you end up wanting to be with), might help you get to that next level.

this is a better guide

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whynot_31

AW-

You may be right. And, we are both ahead ourselves in that we are not yet at the stage where we need to choose a wooing technique.

First things first. Mrs. Whynot is correct in that one of the first things we need to do (assuming you have a haircut and shower recently), is get you into settings where there are single females.

In this era, establishing a online dating profile (or several contradictory ones) is essential. Can you post the questions that are giving you the most trouble? Some of us may be helpful.

tateinbk

whynot: Can you post the questions that are giving you the most trouble? Some of us may be helpful.

I have it on very good authority that the internets can be a great way to connect people. In fact I know of a certain Chinese guy who was living at home, who now lives with a certain someone and even has a little certain baby.

whynot_31

Yes, and from what I can tell, said Chinese guy did very well.

AW, unlike most of the challenges given to us by readers, yours is achievable.

...getting AW a date is much more feasible than -say- finding someone a nice 2 BR west of Nostrand for less than $1200, OR solving complex social and political problems.

Please post dating profile soon. K thx.

armchair_warrior

armchair is alright , i'm going to find a girl who doesn't have preconceive stigma of a person living with their parents one day.