No more Strollers at Union Hall
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I was just talking to a gym teacher at a private school the other day who told me maybe another reason obesity is epidemic is kids are in strollers forever. They aren't building up any early muscle mass. They get STROLLED to a tumbling class in order to get exercise. How f'd up is that?
I personally don't bring my kids to bars. I am around kids a lot--it is nice to have a break and not worry about uttering an expletive. -
i agree with someone else...
we should pass a special law in park slope that again allows smoking in bars.
i'd go more often, that's for sure.
although i have to say...i do like union hall...they have a lovely outdoor smoking area. -
Smoke in bars, good. Kids in bars, bad. I guess it's all in what annoys you. Me, I'd rather deal with a kid than cancer.
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[quote="Drano"]Good. I didn't do it when my kid was in a stroller and I don't like when other people do it. If I'm out for a few pops it's a break from kids, I don't need that ruined by somebody else's squawking meatbags. There are places that encourage this scene - and fair enough, I avoid them; what I don't like to see is a clearly adult establishment with a bunch of strollers. That's automatic walkout for me. I didn't like it when I lived in Ireland either, it's just where I draw the line I guess.
Well put! When you have kids, guess what; you don't come first anymore. :shock: We all deserve a break; even us parents. But I hate to keep that phony smile posted on my face just because there's a mommy balancing a toddler on the bar! Am I supposed to find that cute?! I love em on my time, naturally. Don't force the issue by forcing me to monitor my behavior! -
steve wrote: can't tell if this is serious, but if so.awesome, babies and bars are a bad combination.
Amen! Any drunk person could trip on strollers and send beer glasses flying through the air to break on babies' heads. And what about cafes? Hot coffee can do damage too. The babies are better off banned from bars. -
Boy.... I have read heated discussion threads on this forum and trust me.... this is not one of those "heated" ones.
Bottom line... There are enough bars in the Slope where there are no strollers and if you want to avoid drinking with REAL minors you just know not to frequent those places.
So given there are options.. this discussion will not get heated in the way other topics can get. -
I guess I'm a bit torn and maybe it depends on my mood.
On one hand, I don't like the silly law that requires you to be 21 to drink, then again, I also don't want to be at a bar with drunk little kids either, now that I'm way way past 21.
Now as far as little-little kids are concerned (who presumably are not drunk but are with their family who, for whatever reason, chose not to hire a sitter), I don't really wanna see them, but I don't really care too much either.
I guess I just don't like the fact that the bar should be chastised if they make a decision to NOT allow kids. If they don't wanna have kids in Union Hall, then F*CK everyone, it's their choice.... plenty of other bars to go to if you must bring kids. Just because we live in a nabe' with a lot of kids shouldn't mean that they have a free pass to do whatever they want.
And I think a place like Union Hall (or most NYC establishments with limited space) strollers should be banned/parked out front/somewhere out of the way. I can't tell you how many times I've tripped over them and they certainly could be a BIG fire hazard if people needed to rush out. -
Subject: Re: No more Strollers at Union Hall
caseopele wrote:
It's only a small percentage of bars that allow kids. Mostly the out-of-town pubs out in the countryside or the suburbs. Pubs are a much more sociable affair over the pond - it's not just a place to get drunk.
Not everyone in the UK is pleased about kids being in pubs.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7171582.stmcaseopele wrote: And here's a question. If someone doesn't really like being around kids, where are they supposed to go?
Um....one of the many, many bars that don't allow kids? -
Subject: My 2 cents
my two cents, for what its worth, is that I only went to Union Hall twice and both times was appalled to be sitting next to toddlers while trying talk to my girlfriends (sometimes graphically) about life. So I've not been back. I'll give it another try if its not going to feel like a preschool. -
Subject: New Bar Rules?
New Jersey and you, perfect together.
Babies and bars, not so perfect together. Maybe during the daytime, maybe. Anytime else, I suppose, is inappropriate and dangerous, especially in the city. I could see taking a baby to a bar/restrurant situtation, but on the resturant side. I guess also if you know the bar owner, and you are stolling past his/her bar on a saturday afternoon, you could stop in for a chat.
Furthermore, and more importantly, however, people should take their bar drinking more seriously. We've really lost our step. Be professional people, and leave the kids at home. You know the deal, or should have known when you decided to "make babies": when you have kids, you can't be the guy/girl at the bar. It's not that your not cool, you just can't be the guy/girl at the bar.
Charlesbklyn -
I am so confused. Since when can anyone under the age of 21 enter a bar???
I recently tried slipping my 13-year-old cousin into a bar around 7 PM -- I just saw someone I knew that I wanted to say "hi" to real quick. The bouncer stopped us from entering and shook his head, "no way!" -
raw wrote: I am so confused. Since when can anyone under the age of 21 enter a bar???
I think it really depends. I'm 33, and was turned away from The Gate last year without an ID (I hadn't brought my wallet with me, for some reason). Trust me when I say that I definitely look older than 21! If I'd shown up before their bouncer had started for the night, I'd have gotten in with no problem. I'd have to wonder if the same would've happened with your cousin if you'd been there before the bouncer.
I recently tried slipping my 13-year-old cousin into a bar around 7 PM -- I just saw someone I knew that I wanted to say "hi" to real quick. The bouncer stopped us from entering and shook his head, "no way!"
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This whole thing is absurd. I walked past Union Hall yesterday around 1pm and saw several strollers and babies/toddlers inside. I am pretty sure I saw some moron holding a glass of beer in one hand and an infant in the other. My wife an I do not have any children, we do hope to have a baby in the near future but there is not one scenario I can come up with where we would take our child to a bar. From my point of view it seems selfish and irresponsible. If you want go to a bar find someone to watch your kid(s). It is stuff like this that gets Park Slope the reputation for the insane parents. This is very much like the people who bring babies to sporting events and movei theaters and other situations like that. If you can't find someone to watch your child then don't go. I'm sure there are plenty of parents out there that feel that they shouldn't have to change their lifestyle 100% and should be able to do many things they did before they had a child. Yes that is all true, but get a damned babysitter otherwise you are just being a selfish prick.
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A few of us planned to meet up for lunch and drinks Saturday at Union Hall. Got there around 1:30 and there was a BABY SHOWER!
Here I was, thinking I could go for a nice bite and some beer and there were kids yelling and running around. Wow.
There was a nice baby-shower baloon tied to the sign out front... something EVERY bar needs I'm sure.
Sadly, we had to go elsewhere. -
kosherdave wrote: A few of us planned to meet up for lunch and drinks Saturday at Union Hall. Got there around 1:30 and there was a BABY SHOWER!
Um... wow. I'm having a baby in April, and I would never have held a shower at a bar. This holds true, even though I'm one of "those people" who will probably pop by the Gate this summer for a quick pint of something delicious while my infant naps in her stroller. Napping baby in a stroller for one quick drink = fine, in my book. Baby shower in a bar, with a number of ambulatory kids running around and such = no way, no how, uh uh.
Here I was, thinking I could go for a nice bite and some beer and there were kids yelling and running around. Wow.
There was a nice baby-shower baloon tied to the sign out front... something EVERY bar needs I'm sure.
Sadly, we had to go elsewhere. -
meganlibrarian wrote: Napping baby in a stroller for one quick drink = fine, in my book. Baby shower in a bar, with a number of ambulatory kids running around and such = no way, no how, uh uh.
Beware the slippery slope!!!
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Three weeks ago, my friend and I met for lunch in Park Slope, with our four-month-old sons and strollers in tow. Oblivious to the Park Slope stroller wars (we live in other parts of Brooklyn), we decided to slip into UH for a drink after lunch, only to find that two different mommy groups had commandeered the entire front of the bar. There were strollers, bjorns, diaper bags and boobs all over the place. WE got dirty looks from the Alpha-moms when we asked them to move their strollers and bags from the only open seating so the two of us could sit down. I asked the bartender if they had even called ahead to say that 20 of them would be showing up and they had not. Seemed a bit rude and self-entitled.
I'm still new to life with baby and baby accoutrements and am always painfully self-aware when I enter an establishment with my giant stroller and baby. I haven't forgotten how irritating it was to trip over other peoples' kids when I was childless. I won't say I don't go to bars now that I have a kid, but mine doesn't walk or crawl and I can't imagine we'll be able to enjoy ourselves in a bar once he does. Mommy and Daddy will just have to get crunked on the playground... -
mrsdpd wrote: There were strollers, bjorns, diaper bags and boobs all over the place.
Dude, I didn't know that UH was B.Y.O.Boob. -
daver wrote: [quote=mrsdpd]There were strollers, bjorns, diaper bags and boobs all over the place.
Dude, I didn't know that UH was B.Y.O.Boob.
Isn't there generally an understanding that "no outside beverages" are allowed in bars? Surely bringing your own tap is verbotten.
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Carnivore wrote: [quote=daver][quote=mrsdpd]There were strollers, bjorns, diaper bags and boobs all over the place.
Dude, I didn't know that UH was B.Y.O.Boob.
Isn't there generally an understanding that "no outside beverages" are allowed in bars? Surely bringing your own tap is verbotten.
On the contrary...I could swear I've seen a few growlers there.
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I have never been to Union Hall-but, isn't it a bar??
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LongTimeSloper wrote: I have never been to Union Hall-but, isn't it a bar??
Yup.
Apparently, it is a titty bar, according to some posters...
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I will never get the bring your kid/baby to a bar mentality.
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I'm not a parent, and feel that the concept of baby bars is ridiculous, but think it should just be left to the individual establishment to decide whether to allow children. I could see it being a profitable move for a Park Slope bar on a weekday afternoon, when (according to legend, since I'm usually at work) the neighborhood is run by the stroller set. If a bar feels that it gains more business by being children-friendly, more power to it. But if I walked into Union Hall and saw a bunch of baby strollers, I'd go elsewhere.
If you feel the need to get sloshed by yourself at 11am on a Tuesday, why not just go to Jackie's Fifth Amendment? (I can't imagine strollers would be a problem there). -
meganlibrarian wrote: [quote=raw]I am so confused. Since when can anyone under the age of 21 enter a bar???
I think it really depends. I'm 33, and was turned away from The Gate last year without an ID (I hadn't brought my wallet with me, for some reason). Trust me when I say that I definitely look older than 21! If I'd shown up before their bouncer had started for the night, I'd have gotten in with no problem. I'd have to wonder if the same would've happened with your cousin if you'd been there before the bouncer.
I recently tried slipping my 13-year-old cousin into a bar around 7 PM -- I just saw someone I knew that I wanted to say "hi" to real quick. The bouncer stopped us from entering and shook his head, "no way!"
If you forget your ID again, hop into my stroller and I'll push you in. -
LongTimeSloper wrote: I will never get the bring your kid/baby to a bar mentality.
bars are for adults. the problem is that union hall has a nice, kinda dark, academic feel to it, and it's cozy, so it's like being at a "club"... but it's not a club, it's a BAR.
besides, don't they sell booze at the union st tea lounge? why not just dim the lights in the back corner, arrange the seating differently, and really turn it into a lounge. hell, if i had a child i'd def. want to get out of the house and have a drink with friends. i see no problem with that. but, as my parents taught me, there are places for children and there are places for grown-ups. i don't know why so many people in our neighborhoods keep trying to close that divide. -
I..I..I...wa--wahhhhwould like to request that all ba-ba-bars aaaaaahhhhhhhlow us pa-pa-parents to dr-dri-drink with our kids in public....We must get liquored-up...somewhere...somewhere fun...out of the in-laws' sight....
My favvvorite bar g-gives plastic sippy cups to toddlers shaped like Jack Daniels bottles yesssssssss.... -
as much as I hate kids and kids in bars this thread has turned into abunch of people whining about kids.
kinda bored and annoying. -
i can't find any posts here that bash kids, whine about kids, or frankly even whine. mostly we're asking why some parents want to bring their little ones to bars.
what if i went hang out on one of the jungle gyms at the 3rd street playground with a group of adult friends and their tots and a picnic that included a few bottles of wine? how quickly do you think we'd be asked to leave? is alcohol even allowed there? more so, please tell me who gets angry that this childrens' venue isn't set up for happy hour?
there are places for adults, there are places for children. why is this such a hard concept to grasp?
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