Stand up for human life!
Show solidarity with all peace loving people worldwide!
Memorial service for the terror victims in Mumbai.
Thursday evening, Dec. 4, 2008 -7:30 p.m.
Congregation B'nai Jacob
401 9th street (bet. 6th & 7th aves.)Admission Free
Let's stand together and stand up to these senseless terrorist murders.
Please attend and show that we won't be deterred. Goodness will prevail!
Memorial service for the terror victims in Mumbai.
Thursday evening, Dec. 4, 2008 -7:30 p.m.
Congregation B'nai Jacob
401 9th street (bet. 6th & 7th aves.)Admission Free
Let's stand together and stand up to these senseless terrorist murders.
Please attend and show that we won't be deterred. Goodness will prevail!
Comments
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How did the peace solidarity meeting go?
Next time, can you consider holding a solidarity service that remembers ALL victims of terror, including all of the Israelis who have been targeted and killed by terrorists? While I applaud your efforts, I am not sure I see the point in remembering only SOME of those who have been murdered by terror loving terrorists. -
Call me cynical, but I don't find your applause to be genuine.
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I find your doubts about my sincerity to be odd, maybe even troubling depending on your reasons. So, to restate my point for you, I applaud any service or meeting that seeks to remember those people who have fell victim to terrorism. I just think we should remember everyone who has been killed and targeted by terrorists, not just a few. However, brownstone Jew should be applauded again for doing something. Efort is just that, effort, and that is cool.
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What I find odd is your view that there is no point -- at least not one you can see, to use your own words -- in remembering recent victims of a terror attack unless you are going to remember ALL victims of terror. Why?
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EasilyFound,
Then you should have said that in the first place. But it is caddy and rude of you to suggest I am not "genuine."You may not agree with me, but I am certainly genuine. I will explain myself now that you have chosen to be polite and perhaps you can open your mind to other ideas without being rude in response.
It is my view that all terrorism is related. Targeting civilians for political or religious gain is always sick. My friends in Israel deal with rockets coming towards their families all year round. Remembering only some of the people hit by terrorism is a way to forget the many others who faced it or have faced it. Terrorism is either always wrong or it is always right, and I don't want to live in a world where it is okay to target and kill civilians.
Ideally, a memorial service would be to remember all victims of terror to honor those recent victims in India.
You can disagree with that view, but genuine it is! -
Dexter wrote: How did the peace solidarity meeting go?
what are you talking about?
Next time, can you consider holding a solidarity service that remembers ALL victims of terror, including all of the Israelis who have been targeted and killed by terrorists? While I applaud your efforts, I am not sure I see the point in remembering only SOME of those who have been murdered by terror loving terrorists.
now every vigil/remembrance has to be for all terror victims everywhere, ever? you can't have a memorial for those effected by a specific event? -
Dexter wrote: Ideally, a memorial service would be to remember all victims of terror to honor those recent victims in India.
I see. You are a bit of a word twister. Go back and read my post. I never disputed that your view, as stated above, was not genuine. What I doubted was whether your applause, for an effort that you criticized, was genuine. I still have my doubts. After all, you called the memorial service a "peace solidarity meeting." Sarcasm goes both ways. Sorry if that was rude.
You can disagree with that view, but genuine it is!
Also, what exactly would a remembrance for ALL terror victims look like? Who defines what is terror and who are its victim's? Would you include the german civilian population killed in the firebombing of Dresden? The civilian victims of the US atom bombs? -
Vidro:
A person can plan and hold any memorial service they want…I can make any suggestion I want. The words “cant” or even “shouldn’t” never came from me.
You write, "you can't have a memorial for those effected by a specific event?."
I don't see a terrorist attack in India as a specific event. My personal view is that all terror is linked and related. The attacks occurred in India because many other terrorist attacks have occurred and have been tolerated and supported across the globe. I am sure there are many people in the world who refer to the terrorists in India as "militants" and "freedom fighters."
So to summarize, a person can hold any service they want, but if the goal is to do anything more then remember, if the goal is to make a difference so such cowardly and brutal attacks cease, then I suggest having a service that remembers all victims of terror. You are fee to disagree. -
EasilyFound:
I thought it was a peace solidarity meeting? Why is that sarcastic? I just think you got caught in an intolerant moment and are trying to get out of it now by calling me a “word twister.” Remember EasilyFound, not everyone in life is going to agree with you, that doesn’t make such people “word twisters.”
As a Jew, at least, in my Temple growing up, when we remembered the dead, we prayed for all of the dead. When we remembered victims of terror, it was never just the Holocaust or just Israel, it was all terror victims. I remember praying for the Muslims in Bosnia and being proud of Israel for sending the very first supplies and aid to those Muslims facing genocide. I was raised on “Never Again”, not just for Jews, but “Never Again” for all.
You ask, “Who defines what is terror and who are its victim's?” That is easy, we all do. I define it my way and others define it their way.
You ask, “Would you include the german civilian population killed in the firebombing of Dresden? The civilian victims of the US atom bombs?”
I am actually reading several books now on the Pacific campaign in WWII and for the first time in my life, I get why the United States dropped nuclear bombs on Japan. When it was clear to Japan that they had lost the war, they made the tactical decision to fight until the end. They were also working on a nuclear bomb of their own. By most estimates, it would have taken a million American lives or more to end the war with Japan. The Japanese responded to the first nuclear bomb by continuing to fight. It took TWO nuclear attacks to convince the Japanese it was time to stop killing Americans. We talk a lot about respecting culture these days, and Japanese culture seemed intent on taking every American life down with them because surrendering was against their culture and a point of shame. When you are fighting an enemy with such strong cultural differences, it is my opinion that we can’t ever say, “Yes, because you have a culture of your own you get to kill one million more Americans because that is what you want to do.” Japanese culture is fine, but when it means another one million American dead, that is where I draw the line. And as a reminder, it was Japan who started the war with America and Japan who refused to surrender when they were beat.
As far as Dresden goes, I really do not know. I am sure the British and US governments at the time would remind you that the German aggression had killed 50 million+ people during WWII and the Dresden bombing was imperative to take out the factories that produced these weapons of genocide and butchery and major transportation hubs. It was the Germans who used their own people as human shields to build the machines of genocide. Your real question might be, "Should German civilians have the right to shield factories so that the Germans can continue building weapons to continue their war of genocide and imperialism?"
The British and US governments then (or now) may even remind us that the Germans had the Allied troops far outgunned for the entire war and to win the war, the Allies had to stop these German guns from being built. But I do not know for myself if such a bombing was appropriate given the circumstances. But since I am on a history kick of sorts, I am going to find a good book or two on the topic. -
dresden was an open city with no military infrastructure.
what easilyfound and i are objecting to is your snarky sanctimonious tone.
"Next time, can you consider holding a solidarity service that remembers ALL victims of terror, including all of the Israelis who have been targeted and killed by terrorists? While I applaud your efforts, I am not sure I see the point in remembering only SOME of those who have been murdered by terror loving terrorists."
you basically said that their service was inadequate and useless.
way to go. -
Vidro,
You are wrong on several fronts.
1. It is EasilyFound who was caddy and snarky and he admitted it and apologized.
2. I certainly did not say the service was useless or inadequate, I suggested making a change for the future. The gentleman posted it for public viewing and comment. I viewed it and commented. That is my right. You are the one getting all worked up and making false accusations. Perhaps if you had family members who have been survivors of terrorist attacks, you would understand my basic point that all terror is related.
I look forward to your snarky reply. -
I didn't hear any snarky sanctimonious tone. Ya'll crazy.
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Mamacita:
Yes, perhaps we are all crazy! That works for me. -
Why would think it was a peace solidarity meeting, when OP said it was a memorial service. Most people I know do not use "meeting" and "memorial service" interchangeably. To set the record straight, for a second time, I questioned the sincerity of your applause, not your beliefs about terror, its victims, and how to remember or memorialize them. Plus, you didn't just express your views, you made a comment about what OP should do the next time, which is to consider having the kind of memorial service that you think is appropriate, as if OP had done something wrong. Hence, my questioning the sincerity of your applause for the "effort."
Arrogant people sometimes need to be reminded of their arrogance. Be more like me, embrace the reminder. Don't reject it. -
EasilyFound:
You are just incorrect and I am surprised you would play a rhetorical game. Perhaps you are just upset with yourself for saying I was not being genuine, so you are going down with a sinking ship. Perhaps you are upset because I answered your questions in a serious and thoughtful manner. The original post clearly said it was a "solidarity" and "peace" memorial service.
Again, I applaud brownstoneJew's efforts, and I also expressed an idea or suggestion as well. No harm in that. Not everyone has such thin skin as you seem to have EasilyFound.
As far as arrogance goes, I answered your questions at some length, in a "genuine" manner, and all you can do is call names. I encourage you to embrace ideas that are respectfully presented, as mine are, but are simply different from your own. -
Dexter wrote: How did the peace solidarity meeting go?
so when one of your relatives passes away ,
Next time, can you consider holding a solidarity service that remembers ALL victims of terror, including all of the Israelis who have been targeted and killed by terrorists? While I applaud your efforts, I am not sure I see the point in remembering only SOME of those who have been murdered by terror loving terrorists.
do you hold a memorial service for every human that has ever died before ?
or is it for YOUR family and YOUR grief ?
your motive appears disingenuous. -
Garfunky the Snarker:
You are so cool to think "when I disagree with someone he or she must be 'disingenuous.'" So open minded. I wish I was more like you and could dismiss everyone I disagree with as being "disingenuous."
I stand by my statements. You are free to disagree. You are free to be as caddy and snarky as you would like. What a cool trait you have. -
Dexter, there's something I'd like to clarify for you:
caddy is a cadillac car, or a person who caries golf clubs
catty is the snark-related word
And I think Easily Found has a point well taken, since you asked (by posting on a public message board)
Go in peace, all y'all -
Pitu the fake Buddhist:
I disagree with your post. EasilyFound is easily snarky and easily caddy. My original post and view stand. Thanks for sharing fake Buddhist.
Go in peace,
Dexter, Real Jew -
much as i'm loathe to get into this wretched fray, i'd like to point something out:
Dexter wrote:
i'm not sure where you grew up, or which sect of judaism you were raised with, but my many experiences at conservative temples in the NYC area--and recent conversations with a number of orthodox and chareidi jews (i do outreach in the community)--have left me with the absolute opposite impressions from their leaders. (which i do not subscribe to, btw.)
As a Jew, at least, in my Temple growing up, when we remembered the dead, we prayed for all of the dead. When we remembered victims of terror, it was never just the Holocaust or just Israel, it was all terror victims. I remember praying for the Muslims in Bosnia and being proud of Israel for sending the very first supplies and aid to those Muslims facing genocide. I was raised on “Never Again”, not just for Jews, but “Never Again” for all.
were i to follow the ethos i've found myself surrounded by, it would be more important for me to mourn for the 6 million jews who died in the holocaust (as opposed to the 12 million who died altogether). that "their" people would mourn them. that the killing of jews was more important to jews than the killing of others.
do you think we learned about other atrocities in hebrew school? i must not have been there for those lessons.
i know that i am not alone in finding myself surrounded by these opinions; i've spoken with any number of jewish peers and found the same issues, time and again.
edited to add:
this is why i no longer practice religion -
Potter:
12 million? 50 million or more people perished during WWII and the holocaust. I am not sure where you got 12 million from.
I can't speak for other Jews, I can only speak from my own experience. -
i suppose it is pointless to point out that this was a memorial for victims of a terrorist attack whereas, war ≠ terrorism, and genocide ≠ terrorism.
but i'm going to stop because this thread can only get stupider. -
Vidro:
Well, when you are using words like "stupider," perhaps you should have never responded at all. -
Disingenuous people often claim to have a topic to discuss,
when really there only real intent is to insult and argue.
Since you reply to perfectly legitimate questions with
child like taunts and name calling, i suggest
that next time one of your family passes
you tell your kin to mourn the passing of
my great great uncle 125 years ago.
lmk how they react -
vidro3 wrote: i suppose it is pointless to point out that this was a memorial for victims of a terrorist attack whereas, war ≠ terrorism, and genocide ≠ terrorism.
I was just responding to what I perceived to be Dexter's definition of terror, which focused on killing civilians for political gain:It is my view that all terrorism is related. Targeting civilians for political or religious gain is always sick.
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Dexter wrote: Vidro:
Well, when you are using words like "stupider," perhaps you should have never responded at all.
"stupider" is better than "caddy"
just sayin' -
Flexi:
What is better then stupider and caddy is joining hands to fight all terrorism, not just some terrorism.
Snarky Garfunky McSnarker:
You suggest that I haven't replied to questions. You write, "Since you reply to perfectly legitimate questions with child like taunts and name calling..."
Please point out any questions that have gone unanswered and I am happy to respond. Please take a deep breath and refrain from being your usual snarky self.
BTW - I am sorry about the passing of your great uncle. Give my regards to your family.
Dex, the UnSnarky, Peace Loving, Terror Despising SuperDude -
EasilyFound:
So, I answered your questions regarding WWII, Japan, Germany, etc, but you still have not responded. Its as if your ability to genuinely discus a topic takes a back seat behind your snarky behavior. So sad.
Shame you can't stay serious enough, long enough, to focus on an issue.
EasilySnarked - that should be your screen name bro. -
Terrorism, Shmerrorism Can't we just celebrate the good things?!
Disrespectful, not-safe-for-work image removed by apollonia666. If you have a problem with that PM me, but I'll tell you right now we are NOT having it in this thread out of respect for the people who were murdered that this event is supposed to be about.
Edited to add: In case anyone is curious, the photo I removed was an ad for some BBW porn site and was a picture of a fat woman in a bra and panties. -
I like your style Mod. I like your style.
The good things...
kittens,
Fugazi's first album,
overcoming adversity,
and what you said.
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