random act of violence
Last night, 8pm, I was standing at the corner of Throop and Jefferson, waiting for the bus. A group of teenagers walked by, and one of them punched me then kept on walking.
Who the eff does something like that? Punches a random stranger for no reason?
I was doing NOTHING to provoke. I was just standing there. The dynamic was 4 teenage guys (them), one smallish female (me). It was not late at night, there were people around, farther up and down the block but not immediately close by. I guess if there hadn't been people nearby, my purse probably would've gotten stolen too so I should be thankful that it wasn't anything more than it was but still.
Who does something like that? Does that kid still live with his momma, does he have a girlfriend? How do some people live with themselves? I'll look in the mirror for a week and see a wicked black eye. He'll look in the mirror all his life and see an ass.
Who the eff does something like that? Punches a random stranger for no reason?
I was doing NOTHING to provoke. I was just standing there. The dynamic was 4 teenage guys (them), one smallish female (me). It was not late at night, there were people around, farther up and down the block but not immediately close by. I guess if there hadn't been people nearby, my purse probably would've gotten stolen too so I should be thankful that it wasn't anything more than it was but still.
Who does something like that? Does that kid still live with his momma, does he have a girlfriend? How do some people live with themselves? I'll look in the mirror for a week and see a wicked black eye. He'll look in the mirror all his life and see an ass.
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Wow, that's fucked up. If you haven't already, it might be worth filing a police report.
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That totally sucks. Same thing happened to my husband, about a year ago. He was about a half block from our place, in Prospect Heights, at a similar time in the evening. A group of teens (boys and girls) walked by and one of them just started punching him in the head. No mugging, just random sociopathic behavior.
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I have heard of this type of violent behavior in Europe but not really here. I am so sorry you were a victim. What can be done about this? Maybe one teen must be made an example of .... real jail time... in real jail.
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Yeah...I wouldn't recognize them again if I saw them though.
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The youths are angry to see white people in their hood. They see it as a direct threat.
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That does not make it okay.
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arrbecca wrote: That does not make it okay.
I didn't say it did. It also doesn't make the takeover of neighborhoods okay. -
How DARE you try to live and mind your own business! You don't belong in that neighborhood with your white ways!!! Stop trying to live in a place you can afford and expect not to be accosted on the street by animals!!
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whites come in, everyone else gets pushed out. not good.
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cafeaulait wrote: whites come in, everyone else gets pushed out. not good.
Well. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle white. -
I am not white but you are.
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cafeaulait wrote: [quote=arrbecca]That does not make it okay.
I didn't say it did. It also doesn't make the takeover of neighborhoods okay.
i'm so sick and tired of this notion of "white people coming in and taking over 'our/my' neighborhood" when did certain neighborhoods become the sole ownership of a group or race of people? I/we white people have the right to live wherever we want - as do every other race and group of people. las time i checked, this was still a free country and no neighborhood is the sole ownership of one group of people just because they have been there for generations. i agree with Anastasia - how dare someone decide to create a home in a certain neighborhood and expect not to be acousted on the street. enough with these race wars in various neighborhoods in bklyn (bed sty/clinton hill). we purchased, we set up our homes and you all just need to get used to it and f-in deal with it. -
I am not trying to start a race war. I didn't say anything about race in my post. I posted about a random act of violence. Any violent act, unprovoked, is not okay.
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BklynGuy11205 wrote: [quote=cafeaulait][quote=arrbecca]That does not make it okay.
I didn't say it did. It also doesn't make the takeover of neighborhoods okay.
i'm so sick and tired of this notion of "white people coming in and taking over 'our/my' neighborhood" when did certain neighborhoods become the sole ownership of a group or race of people? I/we white people have the right to live wherever we want - as do every other race and group of people. las time i checked, this was still a free country and no neighborhood is the sole ownership of one group of people just because they have been there for generations. i agree with Anastasia - how dare someone decide to create a home in a certain neighborhood and expect not to be acousted on the street. enough with these race wars in various neighborhoods in bklyn (bed sty/clinton hill). we purchased, we set up our homes and you all just need to get used to it and f-in deal with it.
and you have to get used to the fact that everyone hates you and fucking deal with it. you are in 11205 one of the taken over hoods. you are the only people who move into a hood and don't blend in but TAKE OVER. you have the audacity to demand that the rest of the hood stops living how they have been happily living for decades just because you are there. I witnessed it right there in 11205. you fucking devils calling the cops on the old men playing cards and dominoes on their table outside on saturday. making ridiculous noise complaints while thinking its perfectly fine to blast opera out your window. calling the cops on completely innocent youth sitting on a bench in the park troubling nobody because you think they "look suspicious" and then you wonder why your ass gets beat after they got interrogated and harassed for a half an hour for no reason. you took over the fucking community garden too. Just like fucking cockroaches. -
arrbecca wrote: I am not trying to start a race war. I didn't say anything about race in my post. I posted about a random act of violence. Any violent act, unprovoked, is not okay.
your very presence in the hood is a race war. get it? -
cafeaulait wrote: whites come in, everyone else gets pushed out. not good.
I am white, but if I wasn't, I'd be embarrassed to have you as my self-appointed "spokesperson". -
cafeaulait wrote: [quote=arrbecca]I am not trying to start a race war. I didn't say anything about race in my post. I posted about a random act of violence. Any violent act, unprovoked, is not okay.
your very presence in the hood is a race war. get it?
So move if you don't like it. -
and, Arbecca, I'm sorry that this happened to you. Karma will come back and bite that jerk in the ass
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No I do not get it.
You know I am white because my photo. You know I LIVE in bed stuy because it says on my profile. But before I lived here, I was in the neighborhood regularly, visiting my black friends who invited me over. So what if I had just been waiting for the bus on my way home from visiting a friend who invited me over? By your logic, black people and white people shouldn't even interact. Where are the race relations in that?
I live a quiet unassuming life in a neighborhood that I can afford, and (excepting last night), it is a neighborhood that I like for its tone and feel. It's not uppity - it is real. I don't like the park slope hoods, they are not for me. I don't cause trouble, I don't make complaints. I don't ask my neighborhood to accommodate me. I am a good neighbor. I chose to live here because I like the fact that it's a neighborhood where people say hi and talk to each other and hang out on stoops and interact. And I treat my neighborhood with respect. I don't ask it to change for me, or because of me. At the same time, I do understand that I am a minority here, but that does not make violent acts okay, and it does not make your hostile tone okay. By your tone and your attitude, you are implying that it is okay to inflict violence and harm on people and I just do not understand the logic in that.
I say: unprovoked. -
Anastasia Beaverhausen wrote:
Hell no. Thats exactly what you people want. WE AIN'T GOING NOWHERE SO FUCKING DEAL WITH IT IF ANYONE MOVES AWAY IT WILL BE YOU
So move if you don't like it. -
arrbecca wrote: No I do not get it.
I never once said it was ok I just said why it happened. It will be happening more and more too as times get worse. Miss me with the "some of my best friends are Black" old tired bullshit please.
You know I am white because my photo. You know I LIVE in bed stuy because it says on my profile. But before I lived here, I was in the neighborhood regularly, visiting my black friends who invited me over. So what if I had just been waiting for the bus on my way home from visiting a friend who invited me over? By your logic, black people and white people shouldn't even interact. Where are the race relations in that?
I live a quiet unassuming life in a neighborhood that I can afford, and (excepting last night), it is a neighborhood that I like for its tone and feel. It's not uppity - it is real. I don't like the park slope hoods, they are not for me. I don't cause trouble, I don't make complaints. I don't ask my neighborhood to accommodate me. I am a good neighbor. I chose to live here because I like the fact that it's a neighborhood where people say hi and talk to each other and hang out on stoops and interact. And I treat my neighborhood with respect. I don't ask it to change for me, or because of me. At the same time, I do understand that I am a minority here, but that does not make violent acts okay, and it does not make your hostile tone okay. By your tone and your attitude, you are implying that it is okay to inflict violence and harm on people and I just do not understand the logic in that.
I say: unprovoked. -
Ignore Cafe. She's just trying to get an honorable mention on FIPS or the NY Times.
I will give her an award, though.
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[quote=Anastasia Beaverhausen]

yes you are -
Clever retort! You win.
Don't you have some white people to go beat up on? -
cafeaulait wrote: [quote=BklynGuy11205][quote=cafeaulait][quote=arrbecca]That does not make it okay.
I didn't say it did. It also doesn't make the takeover of neighborhoods okay.
i'm so sick and tired of this notion of "white people coming in and taking over 'our/my' neighborhood" when did certain neighborhoods become the sole ownership of a group or race of people? I/we white people have the right to live wherever we want - as do every other race and group of people. las time i checked, this was still a free country and no neighborhood is the sole ownership of one group of people just because they have been there for generations. i agree with Anastasia - how dare someone decide to create a home in a certain neighborhood and expect not to be acousted on the street. enough with these race wars in various neighborhoods in bklyn (bed sty/clinton hill). we purchased, we set up our homes and you all just need to get used to it and f-in deal with it.
and you have to get used to the fact that everyone hates you and fucking deal with it. you are in 11205 one of the taken over hoods. you are the only people who move into a hood and don't blend in but TAKE OVER. you have the audacity to demand that the rest of the hood stops living how they have been happily living for decades just because you are there. I witnessed it right there in 11205. you fucking devils calling the cops on the old men playing cards and dominoes on their table outside on saturday. making ridiculous noise complaints while thinking its perfectly fine to blast opera out your window. calling the cops on completely innocent youth sitting on a bench in the park troubling nobody because you think they "look suspicious" and then you wonder why your ass gets beat after they got interrogated and harassed for a half an hour for no reason. you took over the fucking community garden too. Just like fucking cockroaches.
sorry cafe - i'm here in 11205 and i'm here to stay so you can just suck it. perhaps if the old timers in the hood were a little more respectful to the new comers and dropped the sense of entitlement the newcomers would show a little more respect. respect is earned, it's not a right. look into the mirror and let those without an attitude cast the first stone. -
I agree on ONE thing that cafeaulait says. I worry too that things (all over the city) will get worse. Times are tough and city budgets are being cut. 5 blocks away from me, my friends car got broken into on Xmas day. Not a race crime. What did they take? Not her stereo, but her fucking maternity clothes. That is 2 incidents with people I know within the span of a few weeks. We all need to worry about safety. I just didn't think I needed to worry as much at 8pm on a Saturday night, on a trafficked street.
Thanks others, for your good karma. I believe in that too. -
cafeaulait wrote: whites come in, everyone else gets pushed out. not good.
Yep those native Americans who were here loooong before anyone knew who the fuck Henry Hudson was should just come back to the old neighborhood and start smacking around whomever they see.
Makes sense to me cafeaulait.
After the areas Indigenous people have smacked everyone around then the ancestors of the Dutch settlers of Brueckelen can have a go at smackin' y'all. And so on, and so on ....
So, cafeaulait, why don't you make it easier for the Indigenous people and the ancestors of the Dutch settlers when they come back to the 11205 and wear a big sign that says Please Smack Me Upside The Head.
On behalf of all the folks who make this diverse part of Brooklyn our home we would definitely appreciate it. -
BklynGuy11205 wrote:
you go suck goat balls. YOU the ones with the fucked up sense of entitlement and complete disregard and lack of respect for everyone else. Haha we don't have to live in fear but you do. Have fun asshole.
sorry cafe - i'm here in 11205 and i'm here to stay so you can just suck it. perhaps if the old timers in the hood were a little more respectful to the new comers and dropped the sense of entitlement the newcomers would show a little more respect. respect is earned, it's not a right. look into the mirror and let those without an attitude cast the first stone. -
LimestoneKid wrote: [quote=cafeaulait]whites come in, everyone else gets pushed out. not good.
Yep those native Americans who were here loooong before anyone knew who the fuck Henry Hudson was should just come back to the old neighborhood and start smacking around whomever they see.
Makes sense to me cafeaulait.
After the areas Indigenous people have smacked everyone around then the ancestors of the Dutch settlers of Brueckelen can have a go at smackin' y'all. And so on, and so on ....
So, cafeaulait, why don't you make it easier for the Indigenous people and the ancestors of the Dutch settlers when they come back to the 11205 and wear a big sign that says Please Smack Me Upside The Head.
On behalf of all the folks who make this diverse part of Brooklyn our home we would definitely appreciate it.
we didn't ask to be here your people brought us by force. your people the land stealers, invaders and slavedrivers. BTW Indians hate you too. -
I want to move next door to cafe. She's so articulate and she really keeps it real!
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