People who blog about their babies...
Why would you subject your children to this? They are not trophys for you to parade around! Nobody cares about your kids, save the cute pictures for your parents and grandparents. If my children found out I shoved pictures of them all over the internet they would disown me. Makes you wonder the motivation behind these peoples desire to make kids.
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With all due respect, who cares?
Love your kids, live your life, do whatever. Don't worry about what others are doing. Let them live and learn.
Aren't there larger fish to fry in this life, than to worry about people who blog about babies? -
It is a form of abuse. Treating babies like precious objects, spoiling them, not teaching them to be people. It contributes to our laziness, short attention spans, entitlement.
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nyco wrote: With all due respect, who cares?
Very well put.
Love your kids, live your life, do whatever. Don't worry about what others are doing. Let them live and learn.
Aren't there larger fish to fry in this life, than to worry about people who blog about babies? -
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Seriously Babel,
Go F yourself. I think kids are downright pointless save for a few precious moment - I don't even really like them. Also, they certainly are trophies. It shows that the parents have achieved yet another level in the game of life... especially if the baby is dressed in a disgustingly cute manner.
I've seen blogs about much more pointless topics than the future of our society and the importance of love and human connection... so give these people a break.
Let them blog and mold their kids into little images of themselves that will eventually grow up to hate them. -
What about Capucine?
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Probably done for family, not for the general internet enthusiast's viewing purposes.
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it implies a certain amount of "leisure time" that has never before been used by the same socio-economic sphere with such single mindedness. i find it the nadir in america's ever narrowing perspective. what are we teaching our children? that the world revolves around them?! wake up dummies. sudanese parents watched their children get beheaded, and some live to tell the tale. what stories will be told about us?
a nation of babies.
wah. -
Chipster... seems like you don't have enough leisure time to capitalize the first letter of sentences. Just saying.
If this thread can be read more broadly to include all pet peeves then that is certainly mine. It's called the "shift" key. Look into it. -
Shouldn't this be on the Rant and Rave thread in The Lounge?
I don't see what any of this has to do with the Park Slope neighborhood.
My pet peeve is miscategorization. -
What is the difference between blogging about babies, and an article about babies in a parenting magazine? An article writer will often discuss their own personal experiences with their child in such an article.
Honestly, Babel, why do you give a shit? If it were true that "nobody cares" , then nobody would read the blog. Methinks you have some deep-rooted issues if baby blogs are making you get your panties in such a bunch. -
oh, c'mon. like it's that different from the piles of photos, the xmas letters, etc. that parents of small children have been foisting of folks for quite some time. mostly harmless. in fact, with digital cameras and free blogs, it's cheaper than any of the older forms of baby-bragging. so maybe it's MORE egalitarian.
i do quibble with one thing: a baby is easily as big as any fish i would personally attempt frying in a home kitchen. -
Hi All,
Guilty as charged. I think there are a few reasons why one would create a blog about your kids, or, taking it back a step, your family.
Having a kid is a pretty profound life change, the most profound I'd ever had. As a writer it certainly changed the way I viewed things, my life, the world, my priorities. I thought these things were worth recording, and documenting, and that the element of keeping it public would make me both more diligent about keeping up with it (I'm horrible about keeping a journal) and would make me try to present the ideas in a lucid, logical manner.
Also, let's be honest, as a writer the whole baby world and culture yields pretty much infinite material. I started my blog before my kid was even born, with our profound, and ultimately futile, search for a cheaper, but bigger apartment. I wrote 10 chapters on this. Was it worthwhile? That's for you to decide, but I enjoyed writing about it. The Baby Industrial culture itself, of course, is also ripe for dissection.
It's also, not least of all, a quick way for everyone I know to keep up with what's happening over here.
But many of my readers are not people I know personally. Some have, judging by comments left on the blog, have gotten invested in our story just because they've followed the blog and enjoy the writing. I've been a professional writer for 15 years, but this has surprised and moved me. They are interested in what's to come. As I am.
I don't think having a child, love her though I might, makes me special. It is special, but it doesn't make me special. If it's an elite club than it's one that billions of people belong to. And, to invert Groucho, it's still one I would like to belong to as a member.
I try to not make it too sickeningly sweet. That's really not my style, you know? I try to keep it real, honest and, hopefully, funny. If it's not, it's not. But I try.
Finally I blog about my kid because I'm a writer. This is my life. This is the way I see the world. If I weren't writing about this I would be passing up my own story. You might not like the story, you don't have to read it. But I am interested in seeing how it ends. -
What's up with all those blogs with, like, people writing about stuff? I mean, like, who cares, you know?
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I don't mind if people blog about their kids.... but please don't let them roll on the floor screaming in coffee shops, restaurants, and supermarkets! Teach your children how special they are to you --- and teach them that they are NOT special to the rest of the world. I love my child (now over 21) more then life but I never felt that everyone in the world should be subjected to her when she was a brat.
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I totally agree. Baby blogs are lame. I mean if you really love your kid, shouldn't you put a little more effort in than it takes to do some casual blogging? This is your child for chrissakes, the fruit of your loins!
When I have a kid I will publish a full daily newspaper. There will be all the regular sections detailing the latest news in every aspect of my child's life. His/her business moves, sports triumphs or losses, art reviews etc...Parents have gotten sooo lazy, it's like they don't even try. -
I am only kid friendly some of the time (like when I am drinking and they are telling me I'm pretty), but I say bring on the baby blogs! It can create a detailed account of a child's life that they may want to see later. I say this as a second child. My older brother had millions of baby pics and books and such and I had one page in one book and hardly any pictures. So, blog away! If I don't want to read your musings on baby's first poopie in the potty, I am perfectly capable of moving myself onto the food porn.
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you all will become what you hate, guaranteed.
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yoda wrote: you all will become what you hate, guaranteed.
I hate cauliflower. I'm going to become a cauliflower? Well crap. -
If Jesus were born today, don't you think Mary and Joseph would be blogging it from the mountaintops?
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How about if they were blooged as children and are still blogged as they become young adults? Oh, the therapy bills!
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Seems to me that babies are now big business. A narcissist blogging about theirs can get that person attention and then from there potential advertisers on a blog (and maybe a book deal). Because anyone who blogs endlessly ab out their baby is really obsessed with their own inner child and using their kid as an extension of their own ego. And that is so not healthy for the kid to develop its own identity. The whole baby as PR prop is totally out of whack.
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"now" big business? when were they not? certainly not in the last 150 years.
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Babies are status symbols, personal accessories.
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Babies are the future you never had.
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babies are the past you want to redo.
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I tolerate my kids, I hate yours.
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Babies slice, dice and julienne!
Babies are the new black! -
doctorj wrote: If Jesus were born today, don't you think Mary and Joseph would be blogging it from the mountaintops?
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. they would probably take him to Sears for baby pictures. -
does Sears still exist?
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