So, WHY would someone want a late-term abortion?
In case you're wondering why late-term abortions need to be legal, here's the best thing I've read in ages on the matter.
Real Life: Why I Chose Abortion
The easiest choice I've ever made is also the hardest to live with.
http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/news/latest/why-abortion?click=main_sr
R.I.P. Dr Tiller
Real Life: Why I Chose Abortion
The easiest choice I've ever made is also the hardest to live with.
http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/news/latest/why-abortion?click=main_sr
R.I.P. Dr Tiller
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Thank you Pitu - great article - made me cry
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Wow Pitu. Tough one.
While I appreciate this story, any woman's right to choose, my main concern is that people can go overboard. Meaning, if a mother finds out her baby will be mildly mentally retarded, minimally visually impaired, or even a different skin color than her spouse, that she would decide to terminate. It's a slippery slope. -
Talking about abortion on the internet? This thread is going places.
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Why would someone want a late-term abortion?
I can only assume because they don't want the child for whatever reason.
Horray Roe v. Wade! -
Thanks for the article Pitu. Actually had a friend question the "criminality" of the doctor's killer, which freaked me out a bit.
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Carmen wrote: Why would someone want a late-term abortion?
Carmen, I agree with you regarding safe abortion on demand and without apology, BUT . . .
I can only assume because they don't want the child for whatever reason.
Horray Roe v. Wade!
I posted this because Roe v Wade isn't doing a damn thing for late term abortion, which is currently unavailable in most of the USA. And I *think* most folks tend to think about abortion in terms of accidental pregnancy and not wanting the baby, not fetal viability which would often compel a later termination.
Most of that article is about one's couple's experience with spina bifida. Towards the end of the piece, there's a shorter story about a woman covered by US government-issued health insurance through the Air Force -- abortion is covered for "health of the mother" but not for "non-viable fetus" forget about "for whatever reason". -
pitu wrote: Towards the end of the piece, there's a shorter story about a woman covered by US government-issued health insurance through the Air Force -- abortion is covered for "health of the mother" but not for "non-viable fetus" forget about "for whatever reason".
It's probably better to separate the argument about the right to abortion from the right to insurance coverage for abortions or free/subsidized medical care in general.
I would certainly believe that private health care companies exclude non-medically necessary abortions from coverage. Not because they are anti-choice, but because it saves them money. However if this sort of provision is very unusual among private providers, it may speak to the military's hostility towards abortion.
I have never been in a position to care about my insurer's abortion coverage, so I don't know one way or the other. -
great article. thank you.
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pitu wrote: [quote=Carmen]Why would someone want a late-term abortion?
Carmen, I agree with you regarding safe abortion on demand and without apology, BUT . . .
I can only assume because they don't want the child for whatever reason.
Horray Roe v. Wade!
I posted this because Roe v Wade isn't doing a damn thing for late term abortion, which is currently unavailable in most of the USA. And I *think* most folks tend to think about abortion in terms of accidental pregnancy and not wanting the baby, not fetal viability which would often compel a later termination.
Most of that article is about one's couple's experience with spina bifida. Towards the end of the piece, there's a shorter story about a woman covered by US government-issued health insurance through the Air Force -- abortion is covered for "health of the mother" but not for "non-viable fetus" forget about "for whatever reason".
I think we have an extremely long way to go before "late-term" abortion is legalized in most states and i would doubt that I'll see it covered by insurance within my lifetime... I'm busy being panicked over the right to ANY reproductive rights being taken away which I think is and has been much closer to reality than a lot of people think... hell, sex-ed in this country is still in the dark ages in most places ("you can get HIV from a mosquito!") While I sympathize for the many, MANY women and couples who bear the financial burden of an abortion, I think we need to chose our battles when it comes to such a touchy subject.
As a sidenote, I have personally experienced (vicariously through a close friend) the hell that is trying to obtain a third trimester abortion as we traveled multiple states in an attempt to terminate her malformed/90%-chance-braindead fetus. It cost us thousands of dollars and literally weeks of research and travel. Not a fun time during an already incredibly emotional time in her life. I'm pro-choice in every circumstance, every case, every time until the cord is cut... but, as I said, I think there are bigger battles to be fought in this war... -
Mougar wrote: [quote=pitu]Towards the end of the piece, there's a shorter story about a woman covered by US government-issued health insurance through the Air Force -- abortion is covered for "health of the mother" but not for "non-viable fetus" forget about "for whatever reason".
It's probably better to separate the argument about the right to abortion from the right to insurance coverage for abortions or free/subsidized medical care in general.
I would certainly believe that private health care companies exclude non-medically necessary abortions from coverage. Not because they are anti-choice, but because it saves them money. However if this sort of provision is very unusual among private providers, it may speak to the military's hostility towards abortion.
I have never been in a position to care about my insurer's abortion coverage, so I don't know one way or the other.
You know, me neither. I guess we should all find out before we need it.
Viagra is usually covered btw. Un.fair.
Big pieces of the battle for abortion in the USA are
- being able to find a doctor that performs the procedure
- ability to pay for it -
Universal healthcare will pay for that. My abortion decision in 1972 was not easy. But the fact that money was not a factor made it slightly easier to deal with a very tough decision.
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http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=104817397
I agree with Pitu's list of issues. Affordability and accessability are important issues. Money matters and having doctors willing to perform and knowledgable in the procedures matters. -
thank you for that.
gave me hope in this shockingly tragic time. -
Carmen wrote: [quote=pitu][quote=Carmen]Why would someone want a late-term abortion?
Carmen, I agree with you regarding safe abortion on demand and without apology, BUT . . .
I can only assume because they don't want the child for whatever reason.
Horray Roe v. Wade!
I posted this because Roe v Wade isn't doing a damn thing for late term abortion, which is currently unavailable in most of the USA. And I *think* most folks tend to think about abortion in terms of accidental pregnancy and not wanting the baby, not fetal viability which would often compel a later termination.
Most of that article is about one's couple's experience with spina bifida. Towards the end of the piece, there's a shorter story about a woman covered by US government-issued health insurance through the Air Force -- abortion is covered for "health of the mother" but not for "non-viable fetus" forget about "for whatever reason".
I think we have an extremely long way to go before "late-term" abortion is legalized in most states and i would doubt that I'll see it covered by insurance within my lifetime... I'm busy being panicked over the right to ANY reproductive rights being taken away which I think is and has been much closer to reality than a lot of people think... hell, sex-ed in this country is still in the dark ages in most places ("you can get HIV from a mosquito!") While I sympathize for the many, MANY women and couples who bear the financial burden of an abortion, I think we need to chose our battles when it comes to such a touchy subject.
As a sidenote, I have personally experienced (vicariously through a close friend) the hell that is trying to obtain a third trimester abortion as we traveled multiple states in an attempt to terminate her malformed/90%-chance-braindead fetus. It cost us thousands of dollars and literally weeks of research and travel. Not a fun time during an already incredibly emotional time in her life. I'm pro-choice in every circumstance, every case, every time until the cord is cut... but, as I said, I think there are bigger battles to be fought in this war...
You're a good friend. -
1 word, anencephaly. Don't google it if you squick easily.
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my mother says:
if men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament.
mougar, i kind of see what you're saying, but a non-viable fetus abortion ought to be considered "for the health of the mother", if only because childbirth is -- wait for it -- pretty rough on the body. -
Basically I am for keeping all types of abortion legal in all states at all times. However, it isn't that way now. So if other issues (such as marijuana, guns, etc.) were/are to be deemed a "states rights" issue then I have no problem with abortion being a "states rights" issue as long as a person who lives in a state where abortion is illegal can travel to another state, have an abortion, and then return home with fear of prosecution.
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sweet tea wrote: my mother says:
When I say 'medically necessary', I mean what an insurance company would call medically necessary. Not what a rational person or a doctor would call medically necessary.
if men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament.
mougar, i kind of see what you're saying, but a non-viable fetus abortion ought to be considered "for the health of the mother", if only because childbirth is -- wait for it -- pretty rough on the body.
In any event, "people should be able to do whatever they want" pretty much sums up my views on abortion, sex, drugs, and rock and roll. -
insurance companies will try to get away with whatever they can. that is called "capitalism". the air force (the employer in this case) should have paid attention to the terms it was negotiating. (heck, this being the air force, my guess is that they did pay attention to the terms and just didn't give a rat's ass, 'cause only bad people have abortions, and bad lady-people, at that.)
the fact that this is the air force -- which we pay for -- makes me especially pissed off.
as for the "states' rights" line -- which has historically NEVER EVER been a problem! -- i find this is a much easier tack to take if you have never lived in the states where whatever you're talking about wouldn't be legal, and especially easy if you look down a bit on those who do. also: please tell me all about liberal new york's no-fault divorce laws. -
sweet tea wrote: as for the "states' rights" line -- which has historically NEVER EVER been a problem! -- i find this is a much easier tack to take if you have never lived in the states where whatever you're talking about wouldn't be legal, and especially easy if you look down a bit on those who do. also: please tell me all about liberal new york's no-fault divorce laws.
Why do you feel it has NEVER EVER been a problem? (at least with abortion) You wouldn't have a problem with any state making abortion a crime?
And yeah, I do not live where whatever I'm talking about wouldn't be legal, and yeah, the states that would no legalize whatever I'm talking about I probably do look down a bit on (a bunch of backwoods motherfuckers IMO), and maybe liberal NYS needs to have a no-fault divorce (which may or may not be a good thing), but really, if you do not like the laws of one state you are free to move to another. -
and, heck, i could just move to ireland or spain and marry whomever i want! so why do i need marriage equality anyway? moving is complicated and most people aren't going to be "one-issue movers".
as for the NEVER EVER! -- that was sarcasm. about teh racism, mostly. -
But...if you could marry whoever you wanted we wouldn't get to be sister-wives and live in a compound on mougs roof!!!
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Carmen wrote: But...if you could marry whoever you wanted we wouldn't get to be sister-wives and live in a compound on mougs roof!!!
too right! so never mind, ireland! i have a tent to pitch.
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The reason there is not no-fault divorces has nothing to do with marriage equality and more to do with lawyers wallets, IMO.
And yeah, I'm already planning my escape as even liberal NYS or CA ain't liberal enough for me. -
oh yeah, i don't think no-fault divorces and marriage equality are particularly related. they're just both apparently "states rights" issues.
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Just about everything should be a "states rights" issue. Then we would have 50 little "countries". At least it would be more interesting, hopefully, if nothing else.
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sweet tea wrote: my mother says:
She seems to have borrowed it from Florynce Kennedy.
if men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament.
Actually, thinking about it, I kind of disagree (though I appreciate the sentiment). The only medical procedure still in practice that I can think of which has sacramental overtones would be circumcision in some traditions, and that's rather less invasive and traumatic. I don't think men would relish the abortion procedure or want family and clergy along to celebrate any more than women do. -
Re: STATE rights overriding MY rights...
This is the tiniest of exerpts from Roe v Wade; the concurring opinion of Justice Stewart:
"Several decisions of this Court make clear that freedom of personal choice in matters of marriage and family life is one of the liberties protected by the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment. Loving v. Virginia, 388 U.S. 1, 12 ; Griswold v. Connecticut, supra; Pierce v. Society of Sisters, supra; Meyer v. Nebraska, supra. See also Prince v. Massachusetts, 321 U.S. 158, 166 ; Skinner v. Oklahoma, 316 U.S. 535, 541 . As recently as last Term, in Eisenstadt v. Baird, 405 U.S. 438, 453 , we recognized "the right of the individual, married or single, to be free from unwarranted governmental intrusion into matters so fundamentally affecting a person [410 U.S. 113, 170] as the decision whether to bear or beget a child." That right necessarily includes the right of a woman to decide whether or not to terminate her pregnancy. "Certainly the interests of a woman in giving of her physical and emotional self during pregnancy and the interests that will be affected throughout her life by the birth and raising of a child are of a far greater degree of significance and personal intimacy than the right to send a child to private school protected in Pierce v. Society of Sisters, 268 U.S. 510 (1925), or the right to teach a foreign language protected in Meyer v. Nebraska, 262 U.S. 390 (1923)." Abele v. Markle, 351 F. Supp. 224, 227 (Conn. 1972).
Clearly, therefore, the Court today is correct in holding that the right asserted by Jane Roe is embraced within the personal liberty protected by the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment." -
Yes, if you think YOUR rights are being overridden by a certain STATE in which you happen to live then MOVE!
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Interestingly, the bill of rights weren't applied to the states until relatively recently. For that matter, some of them still aren't. They limited the power of the federal goverenment, but states were not bound by them.
Some examples:
States establishment of religion - 1947
Freedom of speech - 1925
Unreasonable search and seizure - 1961
Impartial jury - 1968
Cruel and unusual punishment - 1962
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