Feeling small tonight--help!

sammieblahblahblah · October 2009

For a variety of too complicated and probably too boring to relate reasons, including the fact that I am in my mid 30s and still, apparently, cant' spell variety without spell check, I'm feeling small.

What should a girl do to cheer herself up in Park Slope?

Emphasis on comfort, and generally avoiding the sensation of feeling smaller than a pea and wanting to hide under the blankets.

jr_in_nyc · October 2009

Make an appointment at a spa and spoil yourself.

goodprospect · October 2009

I'd say do something for others who are in need. Go out and volunteer at a shelter, soup kitchen (CHIPS runs one in Park Slope, as do many churches), call an organization that assists a vulnerable population, but get out there and help others. It will help you realize that you're not so 'small' after all, and that you can make a real difference in the lives of others who need your help.

I'd also say that at the same time you should surround yourself with friends and tell them that you need reminding why you are important to them.....

Good for you for posting this request.....I know you'll feel better soon, especially if you're able to get out and help others.

goodprospect · October 2009

Also -- perhaps the weather has something to do with how you're feeling? For many years I had a touch of 'Seasonal Affective Disorder,' which left me feeling low once the weather got cooler and I was getting less sun....if you think this is a possibility, talk to your doctor about it. S/he might have some suggestions.

domino · October 2009

We all feel down sometimes - but you have to remember this too shall pass.
In the large scheme of things does it really matter if you can spell variety? It is the variety that you contribute to your community. You are just one important piece of the puzzle. You are important to a large number of people - and if you feel that you aren't go volunteer at remedial reading classes for children. You are a valuable member of society - join in!

willregistersoon · October 2009

There's always the Craigslist casual encounters section?

squindar · October 2009

I wouldn't be surprised if it's Seasonal Affective Disorder that's bringing you down. I used to get a serious case of the blues when the days started getting shorter. Now I try to pick up my exercise regimen at the end of the summer and it helps a lot.

and if you need a quick pick-me-up, check out http://donorschoose.org -- even a $25 donation is greeted with the most heart-warming thank-you ever.

domino · October 2009

Totally understand! Went around the place yesterday replacing the bulbs with reveal bulbs (closer to sunlight) and decorating for Halloween to shake loose the fall blues.

Still suggest volunteering for the remedial reading - the kids actually appreciate it and they make you feel like a hero. Even on the crappiest day when you can barely slog home, knowing that this kid is waiting for you makes you haul ass and fulfill your commitment.

landlord · October 2009

I second the spa idea

anastasia beaverhausen · October 2009

I just self-medicate then have sex with a hot stranger.

scarlett · October 2009

Um, I think you are talking about what I do! Coupla valium, some booze and a hottie who doesn't speak English. Sigh.

brooklynchimp · October 2009

Get some fellatio, it should solve your situation.

domino · October 2009

No, no, no on the V! Had a GF that did triple V cocktails (valium, vicodin and vodka) and ended up in the most bizarre neighborhoods with the most awful bedmates. Mild happy haze: good. Total cognizant impairment: bad. I know the old adage "Whatever gets you through the night is all right" MUST have resulted in the morning after concept of Coyote Ugly.

anastasia beaverhausen · October 2009

Scarlett doesn't know the difference. :P

the chipster · October 2009

sit inside of your local small cafe, and ever so slowly, read the papers without going online. force yourself to smile; it works.

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