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What's the deal with the creepy guy who asks everyone if they have a cigarette? — Brooklynian

What's the deal with the creepy guy who asks everyone if they have a cigarette?

scottb2k
edited November -1 in Park Slope

Anybody know the story of the greepy guy that is always wandering the streets in north slope that asks everyone who walks buy if they have a cigarette? Kinda hunch-backed with glasses. He's not homeless, I actually saw him recently walking with dry cleaning. Is he just a cheap creepy guy?

When he asks me "Do you have a cigarette?" I say "Yes I do" and walk right past him.

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  • Hi Scott,

    He lives on Union Street between 6th & 7th avenue. Unfortunately he was a drug addict in the 80's, and the drugs fried his brain. He lives with his mother.

    He's harmless and very tragic how drugs can destroy a person.

  • nkotsonis is wrong. His name is John and he is not a drug addict. I know this man. He is a human being and you should be ashamed of yourself for disparaging him in the way that you have!

    He does live on Union Street between 6th and 7th ave. I grew up in that building, on the floor right beneath his parents. He was a regular guy when he was younger and actually a local baseball star like his older brother. One night, coming home from a Mets game in the mid-80's he was attacked in front of Dixon's bike shop by three men who attempted to rob him. They had knives and they chased him and beat him. His family took him to tons of doctors but the incident affected him and he has regressed from the break mentally.

    As the years have gone by, his eye sight has also severely worsened. That combination means that he frequently asks the same people for cigarettes because he can't recognize anyone. He has known me my whole life and still asks me until I get right on top of him and I laugh and tell him I haven't smoked in my 30 years on this planet and he laughs and asks me to ask my father for one for him.

    He is harmless but and I would not call him creepy. If you tell him no and keep walking, he doesn't bother you. Telling him yes and continuing to walk away says more about you then it does him, scott, esp if you gain some moment of satisfaction from it.

    And again nkotsonis you have a lot of nerve just throwing information out there with no factual basis.

  • I should add that he isn't cheap. He mentally is no longer capable of managing his own finances and his parents, who are elderly and also charged with taking care of his grandmother, are about at the end of what they can do for him. He is on a budget/allowance and with the raising cost of cigarettes he usually can't afford a pack. His parents do not want him to smoke so he tries to bum cigarettes from individuals and spend the money they give him on more essential things like breakfast and lunch and the newspaper.

    I'm not saying that is a good or bad strategy and I am not attacking nor defending his parents. Simply stating the facts as evidence that this man should not be insulted for his actions.

  • I was only recounting the story I was told Slope 1980.

    If, as you say, he was attacked and his condition was a result, then I am doubly sorry for his tragedy.

  • Slope1980 said:

    nkotsonis is wrong. His name is John and he is not a drug addict. I know this man. He is a human being and you should be ashamed of yourself for disparaging him in the way that you have!

    He does live on Union Street between 6th and 7th ave. I grew up in that building, on the floor right beneath his parents. He was a regular guy when he was younger and actually a local baseball star like his older brother. One night, coming home from a Mets game in the mid-80's he was attacked in front of Dixon's bike shop by three men who attempted to rob him. They had knives and they chased him and beat him. His family took him to tons of doctors but the incident affected him and he has regressed from the break mentally.

    As the years have gone by, his eye sight has also severely worsened. That combination means that he frequently asks the same people for cigarettes because he can't recognize anyone. He has known me my whole life and still asks me until I get right on top of him and I laugh and tell him I haven't smoked in my 30 years on this planet and he laughs and asks me to ask my father for one for him.

    He is harmless but and I would not call him creepy. If you tell him no and keep walking, he doesn't bother you. Telling him yes and continuing to walk away says more about you then it does him, scott, esp if you gain some moment of satisfaction from it.

    And again nkotsonis you have a lot of nerve just throwing information out there with no factual basis.

    Considering that he once made a suggestive comment to my wife when asking her for a cigarette I will continue to call him creepy. Thanks!

  • Understandable nkotsonis but it's not the true story so that was why I got heated. Glad we cleared that up.

    Scott, I think your lying. No one would take the time to post as you did and hold back the suggestive comment part. You def didn't bury the lead. I believe you just made it up but whatever, your free to call anyone anything you please.

  • Scott, I think your lying. No one would take the time to post as you did and hold back the suggestive comment part. You def didn't bury the lead. I believe you just made it up but whatever, your free to call anyone anything you please.

    That's very upsetting...the one opinion I cared about the most was yours...

    FYI your friend is quite creepy... try not to lose too much sleep over it.

  • Scott - I am sure that deep down you are a nice person. Perhaps next time you will buy him a pack of cigarettes - just to keep karma in check.

  • HurricaneKate said:

    Scott - I am sure that deep down you are a nice person. Perhaps next time you will buy him a pack of cigarettes - just to keep karma in check.

    I'm actually not that nice but that's a good point.

    I saw him tonight actually, I told him I saw a cigarette on 2nd street and he ran off in that direction.

  • Scott, my parents have moved but they still live on Union Street. If ever in my hopefully long life I go visit them and I am lucky enough to be walking down Union Street and I see you treat this man like less then a human being who deserves some respect, I swear I'll be the one your dealing with.

    And he isn't my friend, I too was unnerved by him...when I was 7. But I matured and realized that things happen to people and not everyone's life goes according to plan.

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