Man I'm so screwed
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alafairnadia wrote:
Don't knock it if you haven't tried it... you can bet someone who spends their whole day coldly telling others to shhhush wants some hot and noisy loving at night.
hhahahha! I can just see AW wandering around various libraries being like "so .... how are you doing, ms. coke bottle lens glasses? wanna have dinner with me? or ... how about a picnic in the park? do you like babies?" -
<---looking for the mile of men outside my door while I cook dinner alone on a Saturday night with my cats.
On order of BP, I'll try to keep my mouth shut...
That said, I have a god friend who's a bigger girl with HUGE knockers. She concurs with Alf....It's the black guys who love her far more than the white guys. She attributes it to size and culture and the general concept of black men being more accepting of larger women. -
Em26 wrote: Its all about looks....looks , looks , looks!
The problem with this is, that different people have radically different ideas of what beautiful is. Ok, there are a few basic commonalities, such as facial lesions being a turn-off as signalling unhealthy and thus poor breeding stock, but apart from that, we all have different preferences, and those ideals and preferences are powerfully shaped by what patterns were formed in our brains when we were very young: parents, siblings, peers. I do think that if you grew up seeing only a homogenous population, that you're less likely to categorize people with markedly different appearance as beautiful.
If you saw a man or woman that is beautiful.....and his/her race is usually not one that you'd date...would you really just back off , forget that you are attracted to that person?
For more along these lines, I can recommend Jared Diamond's "Why is Sex Fun?"; looks like Google Books has the whole thing for free. -
/starts to take human growth hormones and hits on librarian chicks.
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BigGuy wrote: As a white guy, I can confidently say that we don't smile at anyone.
see? i knew it. -
brooklynpotter wrote: [quote=BigGuy]As a white guy, I can confidently say that we don't smile at anyone.
see? i knew it.
Hmmm...I dunno....a big, white guy smiled at me recently. It could have been BG :shock: :?:
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thats his secret smile, now your time is limited!
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Well, if you had that cute kitten with you, maybe.
Hmmm...I dunno....a big, white guy smiled at me recently. It could have been BG -
BigGuy wrote:
big talker... not if you had your stunning girlfriend with you. she might bop you on the head.
Well, if you had that cute kitten with you, maybe.
Hmmm...I dunno....a big, white guy smiled at me recently. It could have been BG -
BigGuy wrote:
Don't be lovin' on my pussy
Well, if you had that cute kitten with you, maybe.
Hmmm...I dunno....a big, white guy smiled at me recently. It could have been BG :shock: -
lock yo pussy
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Don't be lovin' on my pussy
lock yo pussy
NOW I'm smiling. -
doctorj wrote: [quote=Em26]Its all about looks....looks , looks , looks!
The problem with this is, that different people have radically different ideas of what beautiful is. Ok, there are a few basic commonalities, such as facial lesions being a turn-off as signalling unhealthy and thus poor breeding stock, but apart from that, we all have different preferences, and those ideals and preferences are powerfully shaped by what patterns were formed in our brains when we were very young: parents, siblings, peers. I do think that if you grew up seeing only a homogenous population, that you're less likely to categorize people with markedly different appearance as beautiful.
If you saw a man or woman that is beautiful.....and his/her race is usually not one that you'd date...would you really just back off , forget that you are attracted to that person?
For more along these lines, I can recommend Jared Diamond's "Why is Sex Fun?"; looks like Google Books has the whole thing for free.
thx. i'll take a look a that book
for more on this subject i recommend:
The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature (Paperback)
by Geoffrey Miller
it's $16 at BN.com
Amazon has it cheaper -
Flexichick wrote:
A few things here:
That said, I have a god friend who's a bigger girl with HUGE knockers. She concurs with Alf....It's the black guys who love her far more than the white guys. She attributes it to size and culture and the general concept of black men being more accepting of larger women.
* In certain West African cultures, bigger is definitely better for girls, to the extent that there have even been tribal force-feeding practices; thin girls are unmarriageable in some places. This may have influenced beauty/sexiness archetyping among African American men.
* Fat buildups are the major primary signal of sexual maturity and fertility in female women recognized by men. Women of different ethnicities stack on weight differently because of different evolutionary sexual selection pressures of these arbitrary signals of fertility. So for example, for Europeans it's typically breasts or belly, varying somewhat through the continent, and for various African tribes it's steatopygia. So historically, men in different places have selectively preferred women with these different fat buildups over millenia, as none of them are features of our close ape cousins (who use different arbitrary signals).
* Among all men of any background, there is an enormous variety of preference / lack of preference regarding size and shape. Despite the bombardment of one particular archetype by the media. The thin-is-beautiful thing is very modern, maybe post-50s in the West. Some suggest it's been driven by fashion media driven by gays who want boyish looks and aren't interested in curves.
* So regardless of size and shape, for those not dangerously anorexic or morbidly obese, there'll be a sizeable fraction of men who prefer your size or genuinely don't care (even if they aren't willing to say so openly to their mates if it doesn't match what's in fashion). -
i recommend:
For a more thorough treatment of the subject, check out this internet-based resource:
The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature (Paperback)
by Geoffrey Miller
http://newyork.craigslist.org/cas/ -
BigGuy wrote:
yikes, CL. i always use CL to get free shipping material for my business, etc. which i mentioned to my mother... who went to CL to take a look... and you can glean the rest.
For a more thorough treatment of the subject, check out this internet-based resource:
http://newyork.craigslist.org/cas/
for such a liberal mom she's pretty naive -
Wow, downloading NYC Craigslist Casual Encounters into one's head in one shot is pretty heavy stuff.
Neo: I know BDSM!
Morpheus: Show me. -
she called me kind of freaking out
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The most important thing I've learned from CL is that the correct way to entice a woman is to send her photos of your semi-erect penis. This is the kind of thing your dad doesn't tell you when you're 13. At least, not my dad.
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ugh. i don't even have words
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My email doesn't have enough megabytes to send some thing that size.
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Idlewild wrote: My email doesn't have enough megabytes to send some thing that size.
Yeah, I tried it but my hard drive wouldn't fit on my hard drive. -
BigGuy wrote: Wow, downloading NYC Craigslist Casual Encounters into one's head in one shot is pretty heavy stuff.
On the positive side, it's great to see so many New Yorkers are looking for skiing and rockclimbing partners.
Neo: I know BDSM!
Morpheus: Show me. -
BigGuy wrote: The most important thing I've learned from CL is that the correct way to entice a woman is to send her photos of your semi-erect penis. This is the kind of thing your dad doesn't tell you when you're 13. At least, not my dad.
Wrong! It's fully erect or nothing. Haven't you learned anything by now?! -
Well that just seems a little...forward. Whereas semi-erect doesn't at all. More like a friendly "hi!"
Wrong! It's fully erect or nothing. Haven't you learned anything by now?! -
BigGuy wrote:
White guys don't say 'hi!'
Well that just seems a little...forward. Whereas semi-erect doesn't at all. More like a friendly "hi!"
Wrong! It's fully erect or nothing. Haven't you learned anything by now?! -
WhyFi wrote: [quote=BigGuy]
White guys don't say 'hi!'
Well that just seems a little...forward. Whereas semi-erect doesn't at all. More like a friendly "hi!"
Wrong! It's fully erect or nothing. Haven't you learned anything by now?!
I prefer a powerful 'HOLA BONITA!' paired with a grind on the hip. but that's just me. -
White guys don't say 'hi!'
That's true. We say "Stop all that Malarcky!" -
wait. isn't this thread about AW's azn'ness as it pertains to his mating possibilities?
AW: who are you looking for?
age, personality, hair color, ethnicity, etc... -
AW, maybe you should take big guy's advice and send some women pics of your penis. tat kind of thing's a big hit over at CL
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