Why does everyone hate Park Slope?
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Brilliant, thanks for starting this thread.
I love Park Slope because after 2 years of living in a high rise in Tribeca, I never had a neighbor say "good morning" yet the first day I moved into this Brownstone 2 neighbors came down to welcome me with sweets in hand.
I love Park Slope because I can run to the Tasty Delight at 10PM in my sweats and no one looks twice.
Have to get back to work but I'll be back with more later tonight. -
We should start a new thread if this is turning into a race /socio-economic discussion.
Obviously we all face adversity but there is no question that some continue to have it harder than others based on who they are and what they look like. No question! -
I love that I can sit in my garden and work from home on Friday's instead of sitting in a tiny bedroom with my laptop on my bed because there was no room for desk.
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Rose wrote: And my kids are among those annoying teenagers congregating on 7th Avenue
Can you tell them and their friends to be a bit, um, less noisy at night? I'm on 7th / 1st and I've had to call 311 on them. I don't mind them hanging out, but they do get raucous. -
Sorry, those are someone else's kids. Mine are only outside being annoying in the afternoons. At night, they are home annoying me.
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Rose wrote: At night, they are home annoying me.
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Why do people love short buildings so much again?
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Because you can see the sky. Because there's more sunlight. Because there are fewer people in them, so you know everybody in your building. Because brownstones are still urban, but not monolithic.
At least, that's why I like them. -
laura wrote: I've lived in the Slope for 15 years. I've really loved it but now I'm starting to hate it because it's become so fashionable that I'm getting priced out ... the company that took over my building is now charging $2000 for 500 sq ft apartments with no closets. :roll: The real estate greed around here is leaving a bad taste in my mouth.
I hope you don't have to move. What are you looking for, in what price range? Maybe someone here will know of something.
I also hate the fact that friends of mine have been priced out of the neighborhood. (I've lived here about exactly as long as you have.) And it's mainly only by luck (buying early) that I haven't. But I don't get how charging the market rate for an apartment = "greed." Any more than charging the market rate for a steak, or a bunch of flowers, or a pair of shoes.
In any case the whole cost-of-living issue proves why the "everyone hates Park Slope" idea is so silly.
Why does everyone hate Park Slope? Because it's so expensive. In other words, why does everyone hate Park Slope? Because so many people want to live there!
Do they all hate themselves? -
Ugh. If I had half a brain, I'd leave this moronic topic alone. Alas, I guess I don't have half a brain. Which is probably quite apparent by this time.
Anyway, Charles, your post says it all, and much better than I could. (And I love your icon. Where'd you get it, if you don't mind my asking?)
I'm a relative newcomer -- only been here about 18 years. But I know lots of old-timers who've been here 30, 40, 50 years or longer. And you know what? Every single one of them is white and raised a family here. And that makes sense. Because the big secret no one is supposed to say is: Though PS has had wild economic ups and downs in the last 130 years or so, it was always majority white and it was always basically a family neighborhood. So this idea that whites and families are moving in and destroying the "realness" and the hipster-single golden age of Park Slope doesn't wash. If you'd been here in 1920 or 1940 or 1960, you would have seen just as many strollers, only they would have been baby carriages and they would've taken up even more of the sidewalk than the hated Bugaboos.
If you just hate kids and mothers and families, fine. That's your right. I recommend that anyone who feels that way move to Sarasota or somewhere you can hang with the old folks who hate "those damn kids" as much as you do. It's the best thing you can do for your own sanity, because the families are probably here to stay. I know mine is. :twisted: -
Rose wrote: [quote=belzjm]i like that there's nice people in the slope like rose seems to be.
Aw, that's sweet. I'm not really that nice. And my kids are among those annoying teenagers congregating on 7th Avenue and in the Tea Lounge. But I do clean up after my dogs.
you rock, rose.
I think that it's a great place for my kids to BE annoying teenagers and I really like the fact that there is a place like the Tea Lounge for them to hang out in (and no, they are not the noisy ones, but if they are - go ahead and call 311). -
1st_Streeter wrote: [quote=Rose] At night, they are home annoying me.
#-o
Have you ever lived with a 13-year-old? "I hate you! Leave me alone! Can you help me with my homework?" I love him dearly, but he's annoying. :roll: -
I don't know the ages of the ones that hang out at night on 7th but they worry me because I've seen some of them pretty high, sprawled out on the sidewalk in front of the school. There's drug activity going on for sure.
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The architecture, the history and the stroller milf.
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I love pedestrian communities. I feel liberated living without a car.
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Not suprising that space-cadet yuppies don't see a difference between themselves and other 'white families' who lived here before. A quick hint - there's no such thing as a yuppie firefighter or transit worker. Really.

I lived in Omaha, NE, for 2yrs while in the military. Plenty of Real people there, had a blast. Plenty of Real people here in Japan too. People who raise Real families, have Real jobs, and have Real conversations - not the vapid hot air that can be overheard by the lemmings on 7th Ave on any given day of the week.
Who are these mysterious 'Real' people, you demand to know? People whose lives aren't one big pre-planned yuppie melodrama. People who don't live like there's a television camera on them 24hrs a day. Anyway, no sense in reasoning with a yuppie so smirkingly content in his or her own carefully-crafted artificial environment, like a baby enjoying the warmth of its own soiled diaper. 8-[
As for anger, plenty of people make me angry. Bush-voters and racists, for example. But yuppies? They just make me roll my eyes. After all, they're little more than a bad joke. I call them the 'Park Slope Placeholders', simply occupying the area temporarily until normal life resumes again in the next however-many decades. You may not leave, but your kids will.
Besides, how can I be angry at a bunch of clowns who made me and my best childhood friend (who now owns just about a quarter of 9st between 7th and 8th Aves) 20-something yr old multi-millionaires, for doing nothing!!
/ Not bad for a couple of blue-collar-raised street kids, huh. 8) :-'
As I now wrap up my yuppie-funded year abroad here in Japan and return to my 3 bedroom overlooking the park, I'll somehow try to hold back all the anger and jealousy I hold inside for those living that yuppie lifestyle that I can simply never aspire to.
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I love the Slope because the cops tonight nailed some guido garbage truck guys who were roaring the wrong way up 7th Avenue while doing their commercial pickups, downshifting and making backup noises.
Steroid-boys went limp at the glare of NY's finest and their ticket book. -
Brooke Lynn Knight
I will not write many paragraphs!!
I just so agree with you!!
Be real.. The stability of Park Slope has been its WHITENESS and its family orientation..
How true that the BUGABOOS take up more rom but the babies raise in PS 30 years ago are still here.. witness 2 out of my 3 kids who still live in the hood and now have their own kids.... being wheeled around in the G-d aweful expensive strollers... that I paid for!!
If there are intruders it is the young, single, trust fund, employed and over-paid who are not native New Yrokers..... and by the time they have those kids will have moved out of here!!!..
This has always been a family neighborhood.. -
1st_Streeter wrote: I don't know the ages of the ones that hang out at night on 7th but they worry me because I've seen some of them pretty high, sprawled out on the sidewalk in front of the school. There's drug activity going on for sure.
Years ago me and the rest of the native kids who hung on 9th and 7th used to keep that yuppie teen misbehavior to a minimum when we ran the Ave at night.. used to prey on those kids like lambs, lol..
However now that we're all grown and have left the streets behind, it seems that without natural predators (Black/Puerto Rican/working-class white kids) to keep their numbers in check, the wild priviledged youth in front of Pino's has swelled to maximum capacity. Even had one curse me one time when I worked on 7th - of course he was completely shocked when I let him know that he was in serious danger of getting smacked in the mouth. :-#
Yuppie kids + physical discipline = alien combination as we all know.
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OMG - ur so 1337.
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Actually a few years back Park Slope below 8th Ave was pretty diverse. Between 8th and Park is where "old money" residents lived, and still might live. Between 8th and 7th you had a mix of middle class and upper middle class Irish, Italian, Jewish and some black families. Below 7th was racially and ethnically mixed middle and lower middle class. 5th Ave and below (depending which block you were on) wasn't poor but it bordered on it. The changeover towards the lifestyle we see now started happening back when my family moved here in '75. The original residents stayed for a few years but you saw the changes happening little by little, beginning in the '80's with such stores such as Bennetton opening up. Another change gradually saw the increase of a strong gay and lesbian community, who had money, then PS started turning into a place where race, creed, religion, sexual preference, etc, didn't matter as long as you had cash. Then it started turning into the neighborhood we have now. Which I'm not against, however, I do like making fun of you, the "Imports" that decide to live here. My only laments are that the quality of shopping and eateries has gone down considerably and I fear the new residents are not street smart savvy.
I think one fact that us Natives should keep in mind is that most of Brooklyn is losing its own, not just the Slope. We have become a hot place to live in the eyes of the world. The day of the Brooklynese accent becoming extinct is at hand. I also believe that a lot of us (not all, obviously) have moved because of choice not economics. Even I get tired of the filthy streets and odors and the rat race. New Jersey, Pennsylvania, even Staten Island starts looking good after awhile.
Then again if the economy collapses soon like I believe it will and the City keeps raising taxes on property, water, auto, etc, Kings County will end up with a whole bunch of vacant, new construction condo high rises. The City will probably force the landlords to fork over the vacant spaces to the under $50,000 a year families, which in turn will depress the surrounding neighborhoods which in turn you will see a good amount of flight. -
The South (where im from) is having a similar problem that brooklyn is. I went to school in Raleigh, NC and the neighboring suburb Cary has grown from 25,000 residence to 100,000 in over 10 years. The majority of these new transplants are northeners who are working at the research park near by. The place has been dubed "Containment Area for Relocating Yankees". The place is a yuppie waste land and the majority of the original residence cant afford to live in the new fancy housing developments which are cropping up after their old neighborhood was torn down. This is happening everywhere in NC and the majority of the families that have lived there for generations are either having to sell their land or getting kicked out in order to build malls and huge neighborhoods. Its interesting to see the similarities between the two situations and the hate many people feel towards the new comers. I love it here but I also love the south and I find it funny that I am some what of a invader into both since I was moved from California when i was 6.
so i guess thats my blog, cant make everyone happy all of the time. Oh and if you're sick of it up here move to Charleston. -
1) That big green thing 2 blocks from my house
2) my lovely tree-lined street
3) the beautiful buildings
4) walking down 15th Street and seeing the optical illusion that the Statue of Liberty is attached to the end of the street somehow
5) some of the great stores - like Krupa Grocery and Slope Cellars -
4 ...
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Brooke Lynn Knight wrote:
Thanks BLK ... the icon is from an old coffee house in Rhode Island I use to manage. Inhouse art, though I think it was purchased.
Anyway, Charles, your post says it all, and much better than I could. (And I love your icon. Where'd you get it, if you don't mind my asking?)
On the issue of residential makeup, Park Slope has always been a mix. I remember my friends on the block were from absolutely every domination ... irish, black, chinese, arab, South American, etc, etc. Because most of the neighborhood was working class since at least the 1940's, except for the top part of the neighborhood, the diversity was always unique and exceptional.
The "gentrification" of the Park Slope, beginning around 1994, has definitely changed the dynamic, but I would state it really hasn't changed as much as people think. Yes, there are definitely more professionals in the neighborhood, and many big property purchases I know about are either corporate real estate co. or affluent individuals. But I would state the inter-mix of different people has probable increased. Before, you might have a block with 3/4 irish, or spanish, ... now, its people from everywhere in the United States, including many foreign nationals. And not to forget, I believe Park Slope has one of the largest communities of lesbian residents, something that was not true before 1970.
I believe the dynamic and quality of the diversity is changing, not so much determined by color as economic stratification. Determinations of the change in this dynamic based on the color of one's skin are rendered less reasonable a gauge when you consider there are 192 countries in the world, 50 United States, and a whole lot of mixing going on.
Besides, the U.S. and N.Y. Constitutions, as properly interpreted, demand a classless society that is color neutral when it comes to determinations of fairness and justice.
Park Slope was never a great neighborhood because the amount of white or non-white people, (whatever these terms mean, if any), lived here. It was and it is a great neighborhood because there is a mix of diversity, in every gauge you can think of, that puts it in a special place among the many neighborhoods of Brooklyn.
Without economic diversity, however, Park Slope will lose it's Brooklyn character.
I wish people would focus on this issue more.
Charlesbklyn -
Sunday, me, my bike, Prospect Park
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I'm pretty sure that gentrification started in park slope way before 1994! I lived in the South Slope (not too far from where I am now) in the late 80's and Park Slope proper was completely out of our price range (young non-yuppie family). Park Slope was full of fancy strollers and upper class people who asked me where I was from "the Islands" (I'm from San Francisco).
As far as I can see, it really hasn't changed much around here at all except that the South Slope/Greenwood Heights is more like Park Slope was in the 80's. It certainly is much safer than it used to be and the drug dealers are gone from the corners.
P.S. I still can't afford to live in Park Slope proper. -
Subject: Gentrification Blues
I'm not sure if we are talking about the same "gentrification." Before about 1994, the city was so dangerous that moving to New York was still a substantial risk to health and safety. I believe the people moving to New York at this time would not be "gentirifers" in the common usage of the phrase. Adventurous and non-risk adverse, yes.
Also, the technology on strollers has greatly improved, and many seem to be fansy due to that increase.
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Park Slope is hated for different reasons by different people:
-Gays/Feminists hate it because it's full of families.
-Ananrcists/Non-conformists hate it becuase it's full of successful people
-"Community advocates" and the "Diversity" crowd hate it because it has White people
-Regular NYers hate it becuase the average Park Slope resident is better off than them
-Hipsters and "cool" people hate it because it reminds them of middle America.
So all in all, the people who hate "middle american" society hate park slope. Park Slope rocks!!! -
um, not all (or even, i'd guess, many) gay feminists hate families, sausage.
although i'm not personally nuts about people who call me a "failure of society". (what does that even mean?)
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