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Getting spat at because of who i am

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  • One can not achieve trashiness merely thru hygeine or "mere" poverty. ...its a complete culture.

    Folks have their own media, style of dress, behaviors, lack of education, world view, etc.

    Whether they shelter themselves or are isolated by society is the question.

    Speaking of media... don't you wish you could add a T to BET? That way they couldn't claim to reprsent all blacks?

    BTET: Black Trash Entertainment Network
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Entertainment_Television

    I'm more than willing to rename Fox Cable News as WTNN: White Trash News Network.

    ...but I can't say I've watched either in a while.
  • Man, I agree. BET is just simply horrible. There's a great Boondocks episode discussing this. It's where Uncle RUckus gets his own reality show



    and of course nigga moments

  • MHA wrote: Hmm, she held the door for you? Well, maybe she didn't hear you, or she thought saying ' you're welcome' was moot?

    Didn't see 'Don't be a Menace'. Interestingly, David Allen Grier's dad is the co-author of a well known book called 'Black Rage'; MHA naysayers might wann check it out...

    Hamilton's humor grows with every post; I'm sincerely laughing now. I finally get it.

    Hey Jeffrey, I see your message above. I'll will tone it down myself. Can I still call the whiteman the whiteman though?

    You know, when Malcom was alive, he used 'the whiteman' rhetoric with such aplomb, and folks never got it. They wanted to know who was this negro (small n) calling them out like that? A part of what created dialogue about race in America was Malcolm's ability to (to use a fancy word) deconstruct the whole race issue, and not say 'white people', but rather 'the white man'; it's bare bones, knuckle-to-knuckle discourse. Black people LOVED it. Most of them wouldn't even PRIVATELY talk that way, and here was this dude just layin' it out, and laying THEM out, argumentatively.

    I like saying 'the whiteman' because it's part funny, part subversive and shucks -- TRUE! I am not trying to offend anyone here. Or express rage. I am really trying to engender conversation in the best way I know how. Malcolm did this because King would not. King treated whitefolks with soft rhetorical hands and Malcom refused to do that. I think what rankled people then -- and now is the fact that a brother can speak of 'Them' as glibly as 'We' are often spoken of. There isn't the lack or respect -- just the lack of REVERENCE. For the record, when I speak like this, it's not out of hate, or rage, it's out of RESISTANCE. And to label resistance 'rage', 'hate', or 'misguided anger' -- or any other pejorative only justifies it moreso.

    Do I think CTK is 'self-hating'? Well, I don't think he looks in the mirror and says, 'I hate you', but in the sense that the term 'self-hating' implies a subtle denial of self in the Kenneth Clarkian sense, then, well, yes that's my opinion.

    Here's a bit about Mr. Clark:
    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7704314/

    also

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kenneth_and_Mamie_Clark

    I hear what you're saying Jeffrey, and I am struggling to be civil about expressing my opinions of avatars civilly, and to be receptive to critical opinions of my own avatar.

    I mean, if someone says to me 'your rage', 'your anger', and stuff like that, I think they need to say, 'I think you are angry because of this, or rage filled because of that, or hateful because of x,y, or z...' To simply say rage-filled or hateful, doesn't convince me.

    I made a joke on another thread where I analogized the green hipsters and their concern with their ecological footprint with a tongue-in-cheek proposal that a really legitimate way of dealing with ecological destruction would be to limit the number of whitefolks who move into an area where there are none; I was truly joking, and, I really still think it was funny. Think about it; it would make a great skit on Saturday Night Live. Tina Fey could play a well meaning white liberal with a Chinese adopted baby girl (played by the dude who does the hilarious Governor Patterson impersonations), and that chubby Brother (who coons sometimes, to be honest) could play the president of the Crown Heights Ecological review board!

    Long story short: I too will tone it down.
    very interesting concept,with i being a direct descendent of lonnie the banjo boy in deliverance, it may be time for you and i to start a joint venture , we can rent my west Virginia relatives to black neighborhoods that have been deprived of the experience of dealing with real american whites, not the nouveau , i want the black experience whites, now settling in CH.
    i feel we will make a fortune, you can spend your half on trying to promote your book, Why Did Yakub Create The White Man and i can buy teeth for my relatives.
  • Hamilton wrote:

    very interesting concept,with i being a direct descendent of lonnie the banjo boy in deliverance, it may be time for you and i to start a joint venture , we can rent my west Virginia relatives to black neighborhoods that have been deprived of the experience of dealing with real american whites, not the nouveau , i want the black experience whites, now settling in CH.
    i feel we will make a fortune, you can spend your half on trying to promote your book, Why Did Yakub Create The White Man and i can buy teeth for my relatives.
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  • Outside Child
    CTK, what I wonder is why are you so quick to jump up to defend whites and jews(are they white I am not sure exactly) but so quick to shoot down Black people?
    You say you are Black yet you behave like captain save a whitey(NO DISRESPECT INTENDED AT ALL JUST A BIT OF LEVITY) so please explain why! Are you whipped?
    damn.... I'm going to enjoy my weekend, hope ya'll do too :shock:
  • Mamacita wrote: Outside Child
    CTK, what I wonder is why are you so quick to jump up to defend whites and jews(are they white I am not sure exactly) but so quick to shoot down Black people?
    You say you are Black yet you behave like captain save a whitey(NO DISRESPECT INTENDED AT ALL JUST A BIT OF LEVITY) so please explain why! Are you whipped?
    damn.... I'm going to enjoy my weekend, hope ya'll do too :shock:
    LOL! How did you quote the original post when I already edited it? For the record, I wrote that in the wee hours after plenty wine and as I said, was jokes not any type of personal attack ;-)
  • No worries, I hadn't looked at my rss feed or reader and it was up so it still had the old content. I have no stake in this... carry on.... except to say we are a community and let's follow Jeffrey's words. :flower: ~ I'm a hippie at heart
  • I have an interesting take on the Nation of Islam. I agree in your implication that the 'creation of the white man' myth which makes up a huge part of early NOI lore is ridiculous, on its face. But, if this is nonsense, then all religiious myth is nonsense. At one point does belief in the supernatural becomes reasonable? In my opinion, the Yacub myth is equivalent to the myths in the Bible, the Torah, the Koran, and in all religions and supernatural lore. However the story serve(s/d) a purpose, and that purpose is/was to galvanize the Black poor and oppressed. If you want to look at the inception of the Yacub myth, you have to look at the historical context in which it was received like melted butter on hot bread: readily.

    To simply dismiss it as ridiculous is as disingenuous as dismissing the spitters in our neighborhood without putting them too in some historical context. And that is why HISTORY is important Hamilton. Because without it, you simply look at 'effect', and not examine probable 'cause'. It doesn't excuse the effect, but it enables us to have a better understanding of it. And with understanding, maybe our vexations will be tempered. After all,

    The deeper our compassion
    the greater our wisdom
    and the lesser our vexations.
  • MHA wrote:
    The deeper our compassion
    the greater our wisdom
    and the lesser our vexations.
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    and here are some interesting bible quotes:

    Genesis 15:13-14 (New Living Translation)

    13 Then the Lord said to Abram, “You can be sure that your descendants will be strangers in a foreign land, where they will be oppressed as slaves for 400 years. 14 But I will punish the nation that enslaves them, and in the end they will come away with great wealth.

    Genesis 15
    [King James Version]

    13And he said unto Abram, Know of a surety that thy seed shall be a stranger in a land that is not theirs, and shall serve them; and they shall afflict them four hundred years; 14And also that nation, whom they shall serve, will I judge: and afterward shall they come out with great substance.

    ;-)
  • All religions invent their own version of the noble lie.

    A beginning is necessary, for attaching other related beliefs, providing common connectedness, proving lineage, retroactively proving legitimacy of core principles and values, each person's place in the larger system, you name it.
  • Well, there is nothing noble about spitting. But I am sure the spitter committing the affront feels noble in some sort of self-righteous way. A bit like the spitters and the litterers who do their business by my building.
  • Invention of a noble lie as well as the act of spitting deliberately in someone's path are both about asserting power and dominance, so you are right on the money there.
  • MHA wrote: I Furthermore, you claim YOUR Jewish heritage, disclaim my right to say 'the Jews', THEN claim that 'the Jews do not like to be all lumped in and spoken for'. Sure they don't, and that is not my intention. )
    What is wrong with saying "the Jews?"

    I am a Jew and if you say that, you refer to me and that is fine.

    Is it not OK to say "the Blacks?"

    Is it not ok to say "The Dominicans?"

    I fail to see the problem.

    People see it as generalizing but it is not. All of cultural anthropology is built on generalizations. Care to discuss the 18th century Russians? Better be prepared to say "the Russians" because you can't discuss them any other way.
  • Park Place wrote:

    What is wrong with saying "the Jews?"

    .
    You know what, I have always wondered that too, but apparently it is "not ok" to say that!
    I have been yelled at and called an anti semite before because I said "the Jews are having a festival and all the roads to williamsburg are closed" !!! So ever since that experience, I don't say that any more
  • LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's funny Outside Child! I'm not too sure why though, maybe it's the timing or the pacing of your words. It just reads really funny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    It might have to do with the article 'the'. 'The' connotes that what follows is a 'thing'. And things can be manipulated. Maybe 'the Jewish people' would sound better, but quite frankly I can't think or say that without hearing the music score of 'Schindler's List' run through my brain. I don't mean anything condescending about it. Maybe 'a Jew' (yikes! I HOPE that doesn't ruffle any feathers) -- I mean a Jewish person can tell us. And seriously, this is a VERY INTERESTING SITUATION! The reason for better phrasing could be just as relevant as my own statement about whitefolks smiling at Black folks!! Think about it! Potential for ACCORD!!!!! : )) Maybe there is some historical anecdote which makes those two words painful to Jewish ears. And I guarantee you, if ONLY one Jewish person voices a rationale why they find it offensive, I am NOT going to say 'you cannot speak for an entire race of people (i.e. Holla Peno and Kiddieporno lady)'! And, as I have said a few times -

    The DEEPER our compassion
    The GREATER our wisdom
    and the LESSER our vexations.

    For the record, I meant no disrespect by saying 'The Jews' and if you check everything I have written, those two words have preceded nothing but glowing accolades about Jewish history.
  • MHA wrote: Inelson, I am so sorry you find me so offensive. I will say to you that the diverse views you expect all Jews to have would NOT have allowed them to survive as a people for these 5000 or so years; personally, I find Jews like you naive, and ahistorical, and ultimately the happy-go-lucky unbeknownst betrayers of 'your' cultural and historical heritage, and progeny -- but that's just me.

    Appositionally, I do agree with you that the situation in Israel and Palestine is abhorrent, and need of some sort of resolution. Indeed, I will even go as far as to be slightly critical of the very founding of the nation itself; but this opinion, and the honing of my position on 'The Jews' - the term you so dislike me saying - are so perpendicular to what the issue at hand here is, which is the offense act of spitting as one walks by...

    Furthermore, you claim YOUR Jewish heritage, disclaim my right to say 'the Jews', THEN claim that 'the Jews do not like to be all lumped in and spoken for'. Sure they don't, and that is not my intention. My intention is to tell you what I think. However, one of the distinct members of 'YOUR Group' lays out what HE sees as detrimental to the survival of 'HIS people', and he calls those people 'self-hating Jews'. so whether you think he is repugnant or not, he has philosophical, political, AND cultural sway amongst 'THE Jews', and I think it is relevant to mention HIM. Your opinion here is SO topical (and maybe even typical), because like so many people, you do not know how to make an argument. you LABEL the opinion I make without even making attempt to tell me why it is offensive to YOU, because you FEEL that Dershowitz is 'repugnant'? Well, sorry, but FEELINGS don't cut it here. REASONED arguments do. This is another example of the ad hominem here; and since I am a Black man I'm gonna alter the term to reflect that: 'ad hominem nigritudo'.

    What gets me is how 'offensive' you find my argument. Why is it so offensive to you? Making a statement about Jews -- as a group --one that menitions NO stereotype whatsoever -- HOW is that offensive? There are certain things that identify Jews as Jews, and there are certain RELATIVELY homogenous opinions associated with Jews. I mentioned ONE of them. YOU, sir/miss, are NOT the majority. I think it's pretty accurate to speak with a broad brush here.

    And, for the sake of clarity, my expression of CTK's argument, ,alling him self hating was something I hesitated to do -- for the record -- and that is why I laid out an argument BEFORE coming to that conclusion.

    What bothers me about Inelson here is that by claiming my words as offensive, he/she is a step away of calling ME an ANTI-SEMITE(!) because after all, if I am talking about 'the Jews', and I say something "offensive" about the Jews, then ergo, I am an anti-semite; what a mother-effin irony! Folks, this is another case of Orwellian's bleating sheep: four legs good, two legs bad.

    The problem Dershowitz might have with Inelson here is that he/she claims identity with no protocol, and he argues that what has happened to many members of the Jewish tribe is that they have been lulled by relatively tolerant contexts to relax their sense of selves, almost to the point that they claim a Jewish identity without any relationship to God, or to the protocol of being a matrilineal descendant of a Jewish woman, as well as the accompanying ethos. I felt comfortable saying 'the Jews' because it is my sense that there is a CULTURE that binds them, that ensures that they live by an ethos that protects the interests of their people, and I am quite admiring of that. I get the sense that Inelson is living under the illusion/delusion that he/she is an 'individual' which folks, like race, is another social construct -- and a relatively new one at that. Individuality is a wonderful concept, but in my opinion where it threatens cultural identity, then by it's nature it forces either the culture to change, or the individual to conform their idyosyncracy (sorry for the spelling) under the characteristics which identifies 'the group'. Essentially all cultural groups have an ETHOS.

    Case in point: Not many Jews out there marrying the descendant s of Nazis;
    -- I'm just sayin' -- Yet I am NOT surprised that CTK's partner is a white woman. It falls in tandem with Dershowitz's self-hating thesis where an individual 'betrays' the ethos of the group and marry's/ couples with an 'outsider'. -- Jus' sayin'...

    Lastly Inelson, you are obviously new to the conversation. I have made it quite clear that these are MY opinions, yet anecdotally (and accurately), my opinions mirror those of the large swath of Black people in this neighborhood, whether you like it or not. I have said here -- quite recently that it is Buddhist to say that there is no such thing as THE truth, there is YOUR truth and MY truth, and what is expressed here whether I like it or not is all a part of the big picture. What I have found offensive is that in attempt to present the BLACK truth, it is constantly devalued and demeaned and labelled as 'offensive', 'angry', 'rage', and 'misguided'. And that there exists such a thing as a 'Black perspective 'about spitting (or anything!) is somehow specious. It DOES exist however. But this stance about a Black view on things isn't new. Afrocentricity was shot down via academia, 'Black history' as a subject has been shot down; shucks, civil rights as an ideology expressing the interests of BLACK PEOPLE was shot down. And who did the shooting down? Those individuals whose interests were not in the interests of Blackvolk. I mean I'm jus' sayin'....

    Inelson, for the record, I will not be responding to ANYTHING about the Jews in this or likely any future thread. 'You guys' are too powerful: 'you' own the media, the stores, and likely the building in which I reside; also I really don't want the Mossad to come in through the windows in a silent Black helicopter and encourage me to die of natural causes. Shalom.... ; )
    As the originator of the posting from which the current "The Jews" conversation stems, I just want to clarify that I was not objecting to MHA's use of the phrase "The Jews" in and of itself.

    (I too have noticed that some react strongly to that phrase, and I'm pretty sure it has to do with the definite article, but I have no special objection to it except that it implies homogeneity. I guess that's a function of the direct article. But this is all beside the point I'd like to make.)

    MHA rightly points out that my views don't represent the mainstream. True. But the mainstream is painted, in stripes, with a more delicate brush than the one MHA said he thought was fair to 'speak' with, and therein lies the crux of my objection.

    Politically and in many other ways, The Jews are a heterogeneous people. Yes, Alan Dershowitz is indeed influential among us. But his influence cuts two ways. To many, he epitomizes an old-fashioned orientation that we wish to move away from.

    The founding of Israel as a Jewish state had reverberations that cut both ways, and cut more deeply, than the words of Dershowitz or any single person. It was a watershed moment because finally the diaspora had a homeland. Yet some of Israel's actions over the decades - its treatment of the Palestinians it displaced and of Arab Israelis; the halachic orientation of its most influential rabbis, who reject the practices of Reform and even Conservative Jews; the state's ongoing refusal to stop settlers from building on land that was not meant to be theirs - are frustrating to many Jews in America.

    Perhaps even more frustrating is the fact that so many of the most politically influential Jewish voices in America, and by this I mean Jewish voices that claim to speak on behalf of The Jews, not politically involved people who happen to be Jewish - Dershowitz being an excellent example - don't represent the healthy and vigorous debate about these issues among Israelis in Israel.

    Happily, that is starting to change.

    I found this quote in the "mission" page of JewsVote.org, a project of the Jewish Council for Education and Research and the people who brought us The Great Schlep with Sarah Silverman (http://www.thegreatschlep.com/).

    "In 2008, JCER is supporting Sen. Barack Obama for president and six other Congressional candidates who share the American Jewish community’s core public values: a robust First Amendment, equal rights for all, broad-based economic and educational opportunity, cultural liberalism, vigilance in the face of oppression, respect for the natural world, a strong but not belligerent foreign policy, and support for Israel."

    OK, so that's is more or less a good representation of my core public values as a Jew, and I definitely share those values with a lot of Jews (and non-Jews). But I think it's fair to say that it's not representative of The Jews. Even though The Great Schlep, J Street, and other Jewish people, media project and organizations have, to appropriate the words MHA used to explain his reference to Alan Dershowitz - "philosophical, political, AND cultural sway amongst 'THE Jews'"

    So, to go back to the most pertinent paragraph in MHA's posting:

    "What gets me is how 'offensive' you find my argument. Why is it so offensive to you? Making a statement about Jews -- as a group --one that menitions NO stereotype whatsoever -- HOW is that offensive? There are certain things that identify Jews as Jews, and there are certain RELATIVELY homogenous opinions associated with Jews. I mentioned ONE of them. YOU, sir/miss, are NOT the majority. I think it's pretty accurate to speak with a broad brush here."

    And to recapitulate my response in shorter form: No. It's not.
  • For those that don't like reading, I offer the following:

    a. Some Jews feel as comfortable being "represented" by Alan Dershowitz as much as some blacks feel being "represented" by BET.

    b. "Dershowitz represents all jews about as well as Clarence Thomas represents all blacks."

    They are no less Jewish than the other folks are less black....

    P.S. My Jewish wife points out that:
    1. She didn't know who Dershowitz was until she googled him today.
    2. She is still waiting to get her invite to the All Jews Tuesday Meeting where everyone agrees.
  • I disagree with you on the BET issue there WN31; I don't know any colluf folk who identify with BET, they just love to see the bottoms bouncin', but that's all...

    Whynot_31, I bet you ten bucks if Justice Clarence Thomas is walking down the street and some white dude walks by him and grins, and asks him if he can touch his hair, the least the white dude would have to worry about is being spat upon. I bet you if anyone smiled at Dershowitz he would grin right back and present a 5 point plan how to solve the Palestine problem.

    I have to say, I enjoyed reading Inelson's response. I think there is a contradiction however. Inelson says, "Yes, Alan Dershowitz is influential among us." It's the 'us' that rings out to me. So there is an us, right? So if there is an us, then there has to be a context in which all of the members of the 'us' convene and agree, 'yeah, there's an us.' A good part of those who convene under your 'us' umbrella like what Dershowitz has to say, and see his call for a revaluation of the ethos that defines Jews as Jews as necessary for the survival of the 'us'. The broadbrush works here.

    But what does this have to do with spit?
  • That's either a broad brush, or perhaps just the paint bucket of being of Jewish descent, which need not necessarily contain a homogenous substance.

    Oops, gotta go. Fish on a bicycle calling with a flat tire, having collided with a horse that suddenly stopped at the water's edge, having been mocked by it's new owner for lack of dental plan. You know what a sucker I am for mixing extended metaphors.
  • Once again, jeffery's post makes more sense to me than mha's

    clearly "us" is actually "them". If members of either group paint the other group as a homogeneous mass, we will never make progress.
  • I second WhyNot there.

    And come on, MHA, you made the spitting tie-in yourself! Right there in your posting! With the bit implying that Justice Thomas might well do something worse than spitting at someone who asked to touch his hair.

    The fact is that both groups have a long history of oppression and neither has fully escaped it today. Both groups are seem from the outside as homogeneous, with individual members often held accountable by non-members for opinions, actions, or tastes not held by said individuals but considered by non-members to be the opinions, actions, or tastes of the group as a homogeneous entity.

    But - and here's where the broad brush comes in - 'The Jews' have a different reputation than 'The Blacks.' Despite oppression, The Jews have money and power - and direct political power is only part of it. Given how few of us there are, we do have an oddly disproportionate presence in Hollywood, in publishing, in law, in finance. Of course, those affiliations have historical roots: For instance, Jews' professional opportunities were limited for centuries in Europe and they/'we' became money lenders because Christians didn't want to touch the filthy stuff but still needed someone to do the banking. In America, Jews used to be excluded from large fancy law firms, so they/'we' started their/'our' own, specializing in litigation - work that was considered too dirty and hands-on for partners at Christian firms to touch. And what do you know? America became an increasingly litigious society and the Jewish law firms prospered. But if there's an international Jewish conspiracy, I haven't been invited to join it. Me and Mrs. Whynot are still waiting for that phone call, I guess.

    ….

    Also for instance, and I'm only using for instances here since a full compare/contrast would crash Brooklynian, the statistics one cites when talking about the two groups are different. Who would think to talk about the percentage of young Jewish men in jail, or the percentage of Jews raised by single mothers?

    Bernie Madoff is in jail, though, and if you think ‘we’ didn’t notice the number of Jewish names at the center of the financial crisis, you have another think coming. Holy shit, embarrassing! Even if a lot of ‘us,’ (Jews), like a lot if ‘us’ (Americans), like a lot of ‘us’ (people in the ‘rich world’) lost money, face unemployment and unpayable debts, and so on.

    ….

    Not to mention that, since the end of WWII, the countries of Europe (at least) have apologized to ‘us,’ criminalized Holocaust denial, outlawed the use of a swastika as an image. Ninety-year-old former concentration camp guards are still extradited and tried. Banks have been prosecuted, some money and treasure reclaimed. Israel is tacitly allowed to have nuclear weapons without pressure to join the nonproliferation treaty; America's foreign policy is just beginning to put a the tiniest dab of pressure on Israel to stop actively antagonizing the Palestinian and larger Arab world by building new settlements and insisting that Jerusalem be the state's political capital. To the extent that reparations are possible, they have been made – by Europe, by America, by the UN.

    Genuinely analogous reparations for The Blacks aren't feasible (PLEASE NOTE the term "genuinely analogous"! I do not want to be jumped on for saying Blacks don’t deserve reparations, though like our President and Henry Louis Gates Jr. I believe it would be nearly impossible to implement them fairly). There were no war crimes trials for those who enslaved the ancestors of most of America's blacks and then after Reconstruction tied them to the land as sharecroppers or to factories as peons and enforced apartheid until the mid-1960's. Those criminals are dead or considered too old and harmless to count, or like Strom Thurmond died still in office and celebrated as great men at public memorials. There has been no outlawing of the Confederate flag or the Klan - we have the First Amendment and hate speech is allowed in America. There hasn’t even been some variation on a Truth and Reconciliation Committee. Nothing.

    We all have histories, and for Jews and Blacks at least, those histories pull individuals in two opposite directions. We are held accountable for our membership groups we didn’t chose to be part of, yet we wish to own ourselves as individuals. So we try to simultaneously explain/represent the group and set ourselves apart from those pieces we don’t identify with. YOU don’t identify with Clarence Thomas. I don’t identify with Alan Dershowitz. YOU don’t identify with BET - and I don’t blame you. Do I see myself in Seinfeld? Not exactly, but it’s my luck that Jews on TV and in movies are typically funny and smart (if neurotic), and no one is going to invest in JET.

    But, MHA, I wonder if it will surprise you to learn that, growing up as one of a handful of Jewish kids in a small city in central Connecticut, teachers called on me (or one of them if we ended up in the same class) almost exclusively to read excerpts from the Diary of Anne Frank or the paragraph on the Holocaust when we came to them in class; that I was asked by more than one teacher why I couldn't come back to school for an afternoon test following services on Yom Kippur; that on more than one occasion peers asked me, "If I throw a penny in the street, will you run after it?" and left scraps of paper with swastikas drawn on them on my desk – but that because my father is an unconverted (though non-practicing) Catholic, the Conservative (and only) synagogue nearby made it clear that my family’s presence would be tolerated but not welcomed. And how do you think it felt to see a friend cross herself on leaving the temple after a classmate’s Bat Mitzvah?

    As I said before, MHA, we all have histories. No individual epitomizes his or her group because no group is homogeneous, however it might appear from the outside. And no individual’s perspective or group’s historical experience invalidates the perspectives or historical experiences of other individuals or groups.
  • So, a while ago we started on a utopian tangent that was something along the lines of:

    "How are we going to address the social problems that plague Crown Heights?"

    ...we then covered the history that caused these problems, and referred folks who needed more information to the library.

    I'd like to hope we are now at the point that we can built the coalition of people that will be required to truly make a difference.

    Our research has shown us that we are dealing with a truly huge array of problems.

    Clearly, we need an articulate, intelligent leader. Someone who will bring everyone [Angry people, confused people, impatient people, clueless people, smart people, patient people, rich people, educated people, etc.] together and motivate them to work for our noble cause.

    While our leader must be able to unite people around our cause, they must also be able to unite them despite the differneces that have hisorically kept people apart. Yes, she/he must be able to unite people who often choose to identify themselves as being part of a religion, ethnicity, race, nationality, social classes, sexual orientation, etc.

    ....if we leave anyone or any group out of the solution, we will just replicate the problem we are attempting to solve.

    I have yet to find a leader who could pull this off.

    ...but I must say, this conversation has led me to decide who I won't be voting for.

    P.S. The leader should make really good money; the work hours are gonna suck.
  • whynot_31 wrote: "How are we going to address the social problems that plague Crown Heights?"
    Just an FYI -

    Sometimes the older we get the harder it is to change. Here is a chance for the men of this community to make a difference with the future generations.
    PS 9 is sponsoring a program called "Real Men Read":

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  • Hm. Real men definitely must have better eyes than I do, lol. :wink:

    Any chance of editing in a link to a larger version above?
  • so true (and sad).

    Yes, it is hard to refer people to library (or to links) for more information because they can't read.

    ....What was that percentage cited for people in CH who are functionally illiterate? 37%...

    http://www.cssny.org/userimages/downloads/Closing The Skills Gap_FINAL.pdf

    Page 19.
  • Sorry guys thought you can click on it to enlarge.

    Here is the link
    http://www.ps9brooklyn.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/PS9_RealMenRead_PressRelease_2010.pdf
  • gotta like the part about wood working....
  • whynot_31 wrote: So, a while ago we started on a utopian tangent that was something along the lines of:

    "How are we going to address the social problems that plague Crown Heights?"

    ...we then covered the history that caused these problems, and referred folks who needed more information to the library.

    I'd like to hope we are now at the point that we can built the coalition of people that will be required to truly make a difference.
    Um, less ambitiously, I was going to suggest a book club or something. Wait! Stick with me here! Obviously, a lot of us have done a lot of reading, much of it about each other, but equally obviously, we don't all understand each other and we could probably benefit from talking about some of the stuff that we've read. I, for instance, have read some Cornel West, but had no one to talk about it with. And I really wanted to. And I didn't get all of what he wrote - some of it seemed completely off to me. I believe the book I read was called "Race Matters" and specifically it was his stuff about the relationship between Blacks and Jews that seemed predicated on a reality that I have not experienced. Yet (and forgive me for paraphrasing) I seem to recall someone somewhere in this thread saying they agree with everything Professor West has written. So I definitely missed something in my reading, and I want to know what. And I don't want to have that conversation on this board with avatars; I want to have it in person with people.

    Anyone interested? We could start with a selection by Cornel West, but I don't want to suggest which piece of writing because I'm not familiar with too much of his work. I guess it would be nice if it were something accessible; i.e. something that can be discussed meaningfully by readers who are not in academia. Or we could start with something else. I'm just throwing this out there.
  • whynot_31 wrote: So, a while ago we started on a utopian tangent that was something along the lines of:

    "How are we going to address the social problems that plague Crown Heights?"

    ...we then covered the history that caused these problems, and referred folks who needed more information to the library.

    I'd like to hope we are now at the point that we can built the coalition of people that will be required to truly make a difference.
    Um, less ambitiously, I was going to suggest a book club or something.

    Wait! Stick with me here!

    Obviously, a lot of us have done a lot of reading, much of it about each other, but equally obviously, we don't all understand each other and we could probably benefit from talking about some of the stuff that we've read. I, for instance, have read some Cornel West, but had no one to talk about it with. And I really wanted to. And I didn't get all of what he wrote - some of it seemed completely off to me. I believe the book I read was Race Matters, and I'm sure that whatever the book was (I borrowed it and can't recall for absolutely certain which book it was) it was the stuff about the relationship between Blacks and Jews that seemed predicated on a reality that I have not experienced.

    Yet (and forgive me for paraphrasing) I seem to recall someone somewhere in this thread saying they agree with everything Professor West has written. So I definitely missed something in my reading, and I want to know what. And I don't want to have that conversation on this board with avatars; I want to have it in person with people.

    Anyone interested? We could start with a selection by West, but I can't say which of his books because I'm not familiar enough with his body of work. If someone wants to make a suggestion, I guess it would be nice if it were something accessible; i.e. something that can be discussed meaningfully by readers who are not in academia. Or we could start with something else. I'm just throwing this out there.
  • I don't know how much interest you'll get in that book club, but here are some books that are hanging out at the whynot's, beside those by Cornell West:

    The Truly Disadvantaged by William Julius Wilson
    Children, Race and Power by Kenneth and Mamie Clark
    Manchild in the Promised Land by Claude Brown
    How Race is Lived in America by the New York Times
    There are No Children Here (and other titles) by Alex Kotlowitz
    Amazing Grace by Jonathan Kozol
    Black Wealth, White Wealth is around somewhere (I forget who wrote it and am too lazy to google it at the moment).

    ...that said, my view is that any such conversation would be incomplete if only looked at race relations. ...Don't leave out Economics and strong criticisms of our democracy. We live in a very capitalist country; one that does not put a high value on mitigating capitalism's effects.

    start with The Power Elite by C Wright Mills and work yourself forward...
    http://www.shvoong.com/humanities/471270-power-elite/

    spend your free time at Demos http://www.demos.org/ and you'll be as annoyed (and as annoying) as whynot_31 in no time....
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