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armchair_warrior wrote: [quote=Flexichick]Lots of people will and/or will not date within/outside of their race or religion.
there is a huge Anecdotal evidence there is a large number of single asian males than any other group. alot of asian women date exclusively white guys. i'm not talking about fresh off the boat girls.
I know black people who only want to date black people.
I know white people who only want to date white people.
I know a whole bunch of Jewish people who only want to date Jewish people.
On the flip side, I know plenty of people who will date whomever interests them - regardless of race, religion or even gender.
Not being an Asian male, I can't speak to your experience, but I wouldn't think that being single and Asian is much (or even any) harder than being single and ______________ (anything else).
Yeah, but then there are lots of black men who prefer toothless, overweight white women to black women. And also lots of black men who prefer Asian women. So where does that leave black women? -
I'm a white male who loves a black woman - and I have a wonderful partner to prove it ;-)
We've lived in PS for 11 years and what we see most is Black men with either Asian or Caucasian women - we are a relative rarity.
My other observation is that PS is a couples neighborhood - far from what I would describe as a singles paradise. It shouldn't be a surprise to anyone that PS sucks for single people.
And lastly - beng single in greater NYC remains one of the world's great challenges - it's hard to explain to people that live in other places just how difficult it is to meet someone special in a city of 8 million people, especially if you are a woman. -
Anonymous wrote: [quote=armchair_warrior][quote=Flexichick]Lots of people will and/or will not date within/outside of their race or religion.
there is a huge Anecdotal evidence there is a large number of single asian males than any other group. alot of asian women date exclusively white guys. i'm not talking about fresh off the boat girls.
I know black people who only want to date black people.
I know white people who only want to date white people.
I know a whole bunch of Jewish people who only want to date Jewish people.
On the flip side, I know plenty of people who will date whomever interests them - regardless of race, religion or even gender.
Not being an Asian male, I can't speak to your experience, but I wouldn't think that being single and Asian is much (or even any) harder than being single and ______________ (anything else).
Yeah, but then there are lots of black men who prefer toothless, overweight white women to black women. And also lots of black men who prefer Asian women. So where does that leave black women?
they prefer doesnt mean they gonna get it. these days girls still get to choose who they date or dont date
(unless youre a very good looking guy ie tall and handsome or loaded). and as a asian guy its much harder since we get eliminated from the list of potential dates right away.
guys will do anything even if they prefer something else. hance the males known as dogs comment. so even if black guys like white girls or asian girls. they'll still date black girls.
asian girls on the other hand dont have to cause they are very in demand by all sorts of guys.
plus asians as a group is a small group to begin with so we are very limited in numbers to find dates. i know like literally scores of single asian males. some of us havent gotten a date in decades! -
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armchair_warrior wrote: [quote=Anonymous][quote=armchair_warrior][quote=Flexichick]Lots of people will and/or will not date within/outside of their race or religion.
there is a huge Anecdotal evidence there is a large number of single asian males than any other group. alot of asian women date exclusively white guys. i'm not talking about fresh off the boat girls.
I know black people who only want to date black people.
I know white people who only want to date white people.
I know a whole bunch of Jewish people who only want to date Jewish people.
On the flip side, I know plenty of people who will date whomever interests them - regardless of race, religion or even gender.
Not being an Asian male, I can't speak to your experience, but I wouldn't think that being single and Asian is much (or even any) harder than being single and ______________ (anything else).
Yeah, but then there are lots of black men who prefer toothless, overweight white women to black women. And also lots of black men who prefer Asian women. So where does that leave black women?
they prefer doesnt mean they gonna get it. these days girls still get to choose who they date or dont date(unless youre a very good looking guy ie tall and handsome or loaded). and as a asian guy its much harder since we get eliminated from the list of potential dates right away.
guys will do anything even if they prefer something else. hance the males known as dogs comment. so even if black guys like white girls or asian girls. they'll still date black girls.
well that sounds great. To be with a man who's thinking along the lines of "I'd rather be with an Asian woman or a white woman but I suppose this black chick is willing and she's got a heartbeat and all the requisite body parts, so she will do until I find something more to my taste..." -
The man I just recently broke up with was white, claimed he had dated "loads of black girls" but later admitted he'd dated non before me. He was oblivious to the evil glares we got from black men (who probably date white women anyway). Sadly he turned out to be schizophrenic. :roll:
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Anonymous wrote: [quote=armchair_warrior][quote=Anonymous][quote=armchair_warrior][quote=Flexichick]Lots of people will and/or will not date within/outside of their race or religion.
there is a huge Anecdotal evidence there is a large number of single asian males than any other group. alot of asian women date exclusively white guys. i'm not talking about fresh off the boat girls.
I know black people who only want to date black people.
I know white people who only want to date white people.
I know a whole bunch of Jewish people who only want to date Jewish people.
On the flip side, I know plenty of people who will date whomever interests them - regardless of race, religion or even gender.
Not being an Asian male, I can't speak to your experience, but I wouldn't think that being single and Asian is much (or even any) harder than being single and ______________ (anything else).
Yeah, but then there are lots of black men who prefer toothless, overweight white women to black women. And also lots of black men who prefer Asian women. So where does that leave black women?
they prefer doesnt mean they gonna get it. these days girls still get to choose who they date or dont date(unless youre a very good looking guy ie tall and handsome or loaded). and as a asian guy its much harder since we get eliminated from the list of potential dates right away.
guys will do anything even if they prefer something else. hance the males known as dogs comment. so even if black guys like white girls or asian girls. they'll still date black girls.
well that sounds great. To be with a man who's thinking along the lines of "I'd rather be with an Asian woman or a white woman but I suppose this black chick is willing and she's got a heartbeat and all the requisite body parts, so she will do until I find something more to my taste..."
most guys think like that with girls they arent gonna marry. they'll play around till they find what they want. girls should stop giving it!!! this way they wont waste their own time. -
being single is great! i have tons of money to spend on myself. get new toys all the time. only draw back is lack of companionship and kids.
ladies if you enjoy your material life style stay single.
edit: you always could get a pet cat or dog. -
Maybe girls "give it" because they have needs too.
Just a thought. -
Flexichick wrote: Maybe girls "give it" because they have needs too.
very true
Just a thought.. but girls can get toys . -
and apparently, YOU have lots of money for your own toys. :twisted:
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Flexichick wrote: and apparently, YOU have lots of money for your own toys. :twisted:
lol na. more like impulsive buys for stuff that i'll never need. ie scooter, furniture etc... -
Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
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sexylegs wrote: Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
lol speed willy is awsome! haha
well stop looking for boys where ever you before. different places different people. girls i know tend to date the same losers over and over again with diffrent names. they just keep looking in the same type of place for the same type of guys. -
armchair_warrior wrote: [quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
lol speed willy is awsome! haha
His mother called me and said he was having trouble peeing and that she feared I had given him an STD. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: -
armchair_warrior wrote: [quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
lol speed willy is awsome! haha
well stop looking for boys where ever you before. different places different people. girls i know tend to date the same losers over and over again with diffrent names. they just keep looking in the same type of place for the same type of guys.
I met these men in totally different places: one in college, one through friends, one through work, one through a dating site. Yet, unfortunately, they really were all the same man - right down to being short, puny, whining pussies -
Anonymous wrote: [quote=armchair_warrior][quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
lol speed willy is awsome! haha
His mother called me and said he was having trouble peeing and that she feared I had given him an STD. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
lol this thread gets better and better
. lol wow thats sad very sad. was the boy mental age like 3 ? -
his mother called?
right about now i'm thinking... hmm, this person isn't telling the truth. -
brooklynpotter wrote: his mother called?
I wish I was not telling the truth.
right about now i'm thinking... hmm, this person isn't telling the truth. -
brooklynpotter wrote: his mother called?
yeah someone should do a ip check
right about now i'm thinking... hmm, this person isn't telling the truth. to see if its a regular posing as someone else. -
armchair_warrior wrote: [quote=Anonymous][quote=armchair_warrior][quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
lol speed willy is awsome! haha
His mother called me and said he was having trouble peeing and that she feared I had given him an STD. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
lol this thread gets better and better. lol wow thats sad very sad. was the boy mental age like 3 ?
In the academic sense he was gifted but emotionally he was retarded. He would just crumple at the slightest upset and literally run to mommmy. -
His mommy called you after looking at his peepee?
I'm sorry to laugh (ok, not really), but this is the funniest thing I've heard all day. -
Flexichick wrote: His mommy called you after looking at his peepee?
LOL. I can see the funny side in it now, years later.
I'm sorry to laugh (ok, not really), but this is the funnies thing I've heard all day.
his mom and he had a weird relationship in my opinion. I remember him telling me how he saw his brother's head popping out of his mother's vagina - he saw this when he was 4. I know some people are into having the whole family at a birth but I don't really agree with it. Seeing his mom writhing around naked and seeing her poop and pee and lose all that blood scarred that poor man for life. -
Anonymous wrote: [quote=Flexichick]His mommy called you after looking at his peepee?
LOL. I can see the funny side in it now, years later.
I'm sorry to laugh (ok, not really), but this is the funnies thing I've heard all day.
his mom and he had a weird relationship in my opinion. I remember him telling me how he saw his brother's head popping out of his mother's vagina - he saw this when he was 4. I know some people are into having the whole family at a birth but I don't really agree with it. Seeing his mom writhing around naked and seeing her poop and pee and lose all that blood scarred that poor man for life.
not a pretty mental image. /shoots himself. -
far too much information
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I think i been mentally scarred for life from this thread and be far far away from you ps girls.
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Ladies, our job is done! :P
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sexylegs wrote: Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
I've said it before, but... if you've been in a series of bad relationships, look in the mirror. -
Flexichick wrote: Ladies, our job is done! :P
or so you think. now i'm like a few away from my goal.
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