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Flexichick wrote: Ladies, our job is done! :P
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WhyFi wrote: [quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
I've said it before, but... if you've been in a series of bad relationships, look in the mirror.
Yeahyeah yeah - thanks for the psycho analysis and all. Yes my father was a weak pussy who didn't step up and support his wife and family (instead he ran away abroad and never paid a cent). But it has to be said, there are lot of these whiny mommy's boy pussies around in New York. One of my friends is about to marry one of them :shock: -
Anonymous wrote: [quote=WhyFi][quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
I've said it before, but... if you've been in a series of bad relationships, look in the mirror.
Yeahyeah yeah - thanks for the psycho analysis and all. Yes my father was a weak pussy who didn't step up and support his wife and family (instead he ran away abroad and never paid a cent). But it has to be said, there are lot of these whiny mommy's boy pussies around in New York. One of my friends is about to marry one of them :shock:
That's all well and good, I'm just sayin' not to complain about it when you're the one choosing them. -
WhyFi wrote: [quote=Anonymous][quote=WhyFi][quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
I've said it before, but... if you've been in a series of bad relationships, look in the mirror.
Yeahyeah yeah - thanks for the psycho analysis and all. Yes my father was a weak pussy who didn't step up and support his wife and family (instead he ran away abroad and never paid a cent). But it has to be said, there are lot of these whiny mommy's boy pussies around in New York. One of my friends is about to marry one of them :shock:
That's all well and good, I'm just sayin' not to complain about it when you're the one choosing them.
agree with ya 100% i'm sick of my female friends complaing to me about their bad dates. i'm like youre choosing them!!!
now only if i could find my foot in some door. -
WhyFi wrote: [quote=Anonymous][quote=WhyFi][quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
I've said it before, but... if you've been in a series of bad relationships, look in the mirror.
Yeahyeah yeah - thanks for the psycho analysis and all. Yes my father was a weak pussy who didn't step up and support his wife and family (instead he ran away abroad and never paid a cent). But it has to be said, there are lot of these whiny mommy's boy pussies around in New York. One of my friends is about to marry one of them :shock:
That's all well and good, I'm just sayin' not to complain about it when you're the one choosing them.
Few women are so crazy that they would date such men if said men revealed their true nature on the first few dates! I mean, jeez, we're not masochists (well I speak for myself). Typically men seem to be on their very best behavior for the first month or two and then their true self arts to come out. This was the case with my last boyfriend. He managed to keep up the act for nearly 3 months - my friends thought he was great, my family thought he was great and then he revealed his true colors and then I dumped him straight away. So... -
Anonymous wrote: [quote=WhyFi][quote=Anonymous][quote=WhyFi][quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
I've said it before, but... if you've been in a series of bad relationships, look in the mirror.
Yeahyeah yeah - thanks for the psycho analysis and all. Yes my father was a weak pussy who didn't step up and support his wife and family (instead he ran away abroad and never paid a cent). But it has to be said, there are lot of these whiny mommy's boy pussies around in New York. One of my friends is about to marry one of them :shock:
That's all well and good, I'm just sayin' not to complain about it when you're the one choosing them.
Few women are so crazy that they would date such men if said men revealed their true nature on the first few dates! I mean, jeez, we're not masochists (well I speak for myself). Typically men seem to be on their very best behavior for the first month or two and then their true self arts to come out. This was the case with my last boyfriend. He managed to keep up the act for nearly 3 months - my friends thought he was great, my family thought he was great and then he revealed his true colors and then I dumped him straight away. So...
most guys can smell other guys out right away. have one of your male friends hangout with your next guy. -
armchair_warrior wrote: [quote=Anonymous][quote=WhyFi][quote=Anonymous][quote=WhyFi][quote=sexylegs]Hmm, in my last few relationships, me "giving it" hasn't been the problem at all. The men have been, for want of a better word, pussies and I've been the one to turn down their requests for commitment/marriage. When I say the men were pussies, I mean they were weak willed, whiny mommy's boys. One of them did loads of speed on a night out with the boys, had what is known as "speed willy" and then went to his parents' home and showed his penis to his mother so she could inspect it.
I've said it before, but... if you've been in a series of bad relationships, look in the mirror.
Yeahyeah yeah - thanks for the psycho analysis and all. Yes my father was a weak pussy who didn't step up and support his wife and family (instead he ran away abroad and never paid a cent). But it has to be said, there are lot of these whiny mommy's boy pussies around in New York. One of my friends is about to marry one of them :shock:
That's all well and good, I'm just sayin' not to complain about it when you're the one choosing them.
Few women are so crazy that they would date such men if said men revealed their true nature on the first few dates! I mean, jeez, we're not masochists (well I speak for myself). Typically men seem to be on their very best behavior for the first month or two and then their true self arts to come out. This was the case with my last boyfriend. He managed to keep up the act for nearly 3 months - my friends thought he was great, my family thought he was great and then he revealed his true colors and then I dumped him straight away. So...
most guys can smell other guys out right away. have one of your male friends hangout with your next guy.
Hmm, my uncle gave the last dude the seal of approval though. But my uncle is big into the church so maybe he was just being very Christian and giving this worm of a man the benefit of the doubt. But then when I saw the way this dude was behaving around my family I was amazed. It was like he was a job interview or something. -
Anonymous wrote: Few women are so crazy that they would date such men if said men revealed their true nature on the first few dates!
Yeah, I'm aware of that, but that being said, there are always signs, common characteristics of a given personality type. Whatever that might be, you're attracted to it. Sure, one may slip through the defenses, but several? No. Armchair's right - it can be sniffed out, and you happen to be quite good at it. -
WhyFi wrote: [quote=Anonymous]Few women are so crazy that they would date such men if said men revealed their true nature on the first few dates!
Yeah, I'm aware of that, but that being said, there are always signs, common characteristics of a given personality type. Whatever that might be, you're attracted to it. Sure, one may slip through the defenses, but several? No. Armchair's right - it can be sniffed out, and you happen to be quite good at it.
Maybe I should have got the hint when the last bf pulled out a gun on the first date and said he'd shoot himself in the head unless I agreed to a second date. D'ya think? -
Anonymous wrote: [quote=WhyFi][quote=Anonymous]Few women are so crazy that they would date such men if said men revealed their true nature on the first few dates!
Yeah, I'm aware of that, but that being said, there are always signs, common characteristics of a given personality type. Whatever that might be, you're attracted to it. Sure, one may slip through the defenses, but several? No. Armchair's right - it can be sniffed out, and you happen to be quite good at it.
Maybe I should have got the hint when the last bf pulled out a gun on the first date and said he'd shoot himself in the head unless I agreed to a second date. D'ya think?
lol this is getting surreal
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Ok, I just came back to the thread.
1. What is a speed willy exactly?
2. Bullshit. -
armchair_warrior wrote: [quote=Anonymous][quote=WhyFi][quote=Anonymous]Few women are so crazy that they would date such men if said men revealed their true nature on the first few dates!
Yeah, I'm aware of that, but that being said, there are always signs, common characteristics of a given personality type. Whatever that might be, you're attracted to it. Sure, one may slip through the defenses, but several? No. Armchair's right - it can be sniffed out, and you happen to be quite good at it.
Maybe I should have got the hint when the last bf pulled out a gun on the first date and said he'd shoot himself in the head unless I agreed to a second date. D'ya think?
lol this is getting surreal. now a gun. someone do a ip check please!!!!
Duh. I was being sarcastic. What I mean is that the signs are NOT always easy to perceive. unless, perhaps, you are a psychiatrist. -
steve wrote: Ok, I just came back to the thread.
Its what you probably have in your trousers right now
1. What is a speed willy exactly?
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Oh my, how clever!
Anonymous wrote: [quote=steve]Ok, I just came back to the thread.
Its what you probably have in your trousers right now
1. What is a speed willy exactly?
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Anonymous wrote: [quote=armchair_warrior][quote=Anonymous][quote=WhyFi][quote=Anonymous]Few women are so crazy that they would date such men if said men revealed their true nature on the first few dates!
Yeah, I'm aware of that, but that being said, there are always signs, common characteristics of a given personality type. Whatever that might be, you're attracted to it. Sure, one may slip through the defenses, but several? No. Armchair's right - it can be sniffed out, and you happen to be quite good at it.
Maybe I should have got the hint when the last bf pulled out a gun on the first date and said he'd shoot himself in the head unless I agreed to a second date. D'ya think?
lol this is getting surreal. now a gun. someone do a ip check please!!!!
Duh. I was being sarcastic. What I mean is that the signs are NOT always easy to perceive. unless, perhaps, you are a psychiatrist.
alot of girls i know cant perceive realty even if their friends tell them. they are oblivously to the truth. its always blinded by good looks and charm. -
Admittedly with one of these guys there were the following signs of his instability:
*the first date included dinner and drinks. then he wanted me to go a party with him and his friends and I politely declined that. The party wasn't part of the plan. He later reported that because I wouldn't go to the party with him he had started crying and had had to call one of his other friends to meet him and console him
*he smoked. when i told him i didn't smoke he wouldn't accept them and kept saying, "go on, have one, everybody has vices."
*he told me what my politics and outlook should be as a black person (he was white). Ie that I should "link up" with all other minorities to overthrow Bush.
*when I told him he would not be able to spend every single night with me, he got bitchy and angry
*when I had to cancel a date at the last minute due to work he started whining and saying he hadn't planned to have to be by himself and now he'd have to call around until he could find a friend to spend the evening with him
* a month into the relationship he told me we'd have to go to swingers clubs to have sex in front of other people to "keep things fresh" ( I declined)
I sensed he was a troubled person and felt sorry for him and ignored the red flags. I wish I hadn't ignored them. But that's life. -
speed willy
Term originated in Northern England used to describe a shrunken, flacid penis due to taking ecstasy or other amphetamines. Usually only lasts while user is under the influence of the substance taken, and usually goes away once the penis is stimulated.
from urban dictionary -
steve wrote: speed willy
Term originated in Northern England used to describe a shrunken, flacid penis due to taking ecstasy or other amphetamines. Usually only lasts while user is under the influence of the substance taken, and usually goes away once the penis is stimulated.
from urban dictionary
Hmm. In my experience Ecstacy makes men rock-hard yet unable to ejaculate. -
steve wrote: speed willy
wow i never knew that.
Term originated in Northern England used to describe a shrunken, flacid penis due to taking ecstasy or other amphetamines. Usually only lasts while user is under the influence of the substance taken, and usually goes away once the penis is stimulated.
from urban dictionary
always learning something from you folks. -
wait, you had ALL those experiences with one guy? or several loser guys?
and steve, since you're here, i saw a cute boy today running in my neighborhood wearing a hasher's t-shirt. know him? -
brooklynpotter wrote: wait, you had ALL those experiences with one guy? or several loser guys?
One guy
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and you went on more than one date with him?
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brooklynpotter wrote: far too much information
Yes indeed. -
Anonymous wrote: Duh. I was being sarcastic. What I mean is that the signs are NOT always easy to perceive. unless, perhaps, you are a psychiatrist.
You don't have to be a psychiatrist - you just have to acknowledge that there's something about clingy, whiny guys that you like...
On some level, you have obviously been able to perceive something, otherwise your weirdo batting percentage wouldn't be so abnormally high. To quote John Cusack in High Fidelity,"Well, I've been listening to my gut since I was 14 years old, and frankly speaking, I've come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains."
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WhyFi wrote: [quote=Anonymous]Duh. I was being sarcastic. What I mean is that the signs are NOT always easy to perceive. unless, perhaps, you are a psychiatrist.
You don't have to be a psychiatrist - you just have to acknowledge that there's something about clingy, whiny guys that you like...
On some level, you have obviously been able to perceive something, otherwise your weirdo batting percentage wouldn't be so abnormally high. To quote John Cusack in High Fidelity,"Well, I've been listening to my gut since I was 14 years old, and frankly speaking, I've come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains."
Obviously such men remind me of my whiny, weirdo, weak father. Do I like my father on some level, not really-no. -
speedwilly.com would be a great name for a blog. it's available.
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WhyFi wrote: To quote John Cusack in High Fidelity,
Man, that's MY love life he's talking about. I've been considering doing that thing George Costanza did once -- the episode in which he decided all his instincts were wrong and he needed to just do the exact opposite of what his instincts told him to do? Yeah."Well, I've been listening to my gut since I was 14 years old, and frankly speaking, I've come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains."
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steve wrote: On a slightly serious note, for all of you complaining about your lack of dates, and any single people in general why didn't you go to the DS happy hour last week? I understand 2 people went, and we had 3 at the last one. Surely one single person on this board thought they might meet someone interesting?
In my experience, you have to make an effort to meet people, and if I were really trying to broaden my dating horizons, a ready made group of friendly strangers is a great start. I'm not criticizing anyone, really, but it crosses the mind you know. And I am not saying meeting people is neccesarily easy.
On a slightly less serious note, what do you guys say about chipping in for a date for Flexi and Armchair. They can meet at Tea Lounge, have dinner at Too Boots, and then maybe a drink at cocoa bar, giving them an opportunity to vent at all the groups of people we bitch about on the board, and if we're lucky, they'll make a love connection!
The time and location was not clear. I was not sure of where and when to go :-( -
apollonia666 wrote: [quote=WhyFi]To quote John Cusack in High Fidelity,
Man, that's MY love life he's talking about. I've been considering doing that thing George Costanza did once -- the episode in which he decided all his instincts were wrong and he needed to just do the exact opposite of what his instincts told him to do? Yeah."Well, I've been listening to my gut since I was 14 years old, and frankly speaking, I've come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains."
go for it. the gut sucks anyway. -
armchair_warrior wrote: [quote=Anonymous]
try to be a asian male and you'll think diffrently.
When it comes to sexual attraction, “race†is not an issue for most mentally healthy humans.
Please clarify. I'm not sure what you mean. If you mean non-Asian women are not attracted to Asian men that is simply not true. I have dated Asian males and I am not Asian. As a straight female, I can assure you that there are some seriously hot Asian men out there that turn all straight women' s heads. Any non-Asian who would not date an Asian simply becasue the Asian was Asian is a worthless jackass. The only woman who told me that she would never date an Asian man is Asian herself and had a lot of negative dating experiences with men from the Asian country she was born in.
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